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ostrichhh
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guys i need advice ***small update***
so really, i dont know whats going on and was hoping for some insight. tomorrow is CD 40. i did not get a smiley this month...tested for it from CD 10-CD 30 and nada so i stopped. we BD on a bunch of days between CD 23-30 because last month i got a smiley on CD 29. for the past few days i have been feeling: on and off mild nausea sore boobs (the sides and middle) gassy/crampy stomach
the boobs and belly ache could be AF rearing her ugly head, bc i have been known to have those symptoms. last month AF started around CD 39. no sign of her yet this month. what do you think? when should i test? truth be told ive been testing all along like a crazy person. what day do you think would give me the most accurate result? i feel INSANE and OBSESSED. i hate feeling like a maniac over this, ya know?
anyway, thanks for reading. any insight would be very appreciated!
***well not much of an update. still BFN and today is CD41.
Message edited 8/25/2010 9:07:29 AM.
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Posted 8/23/10 10:51 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: guys i need advice
It sounds like you may be experiencing signs of a possible BFP however, like Ive read before signs of BFP and AF can be similiar. Personally, I would wait until AF is due to test. Im sure that is hard to do and since I have not been put in your situation (yet) its easy for me to say wait. But I think if you wait you'll get the most accurate answer. HTH
ETA: I just re-read your post. So you are on CD40 and you normally get AF on CD39...so you are late? I would def. test then
Message edited 8/23/2010 11:28:04 PM.
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Posted 8/23/10 10:57 PM |
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waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire

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Re: guys i need advice
when was the last time you tested? I'd test every other day...until you have A BFP or AF
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Posted 8/23/10 11:16 PM |
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LoLaBlue
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Re: guys i need advice
test test test
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Posted 8/24/10 8:23 AM |
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ostrichhh
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Re: guys i need advice
Posted by waytogo
when was the last time you tested? I'd test every other day...until you have A BFP or AF
woke up today, no AF. tested this AM...BFN. since i dont really know when i ovulated, i dont know how many DPO i am (if any). but my stomach def is still feeling weird and the boobs are still sore. ugh. it's probably just TBAF. shoot me!!
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BabyFever10
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Re: guys i need advice
So your not really sure if you O'd? Do you temp?
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Posted 8/24/10 11:29 AM |
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ostrichhh
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Re: guys i need advice
Posted by BabyFever10
So your not really sure if you O'd? Do you temp?
nope.
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Posted 8/24/10 11:39 AM |
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Posted 8/24/10 12:42 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: guys i need advice
yeah i was thinking that it looks like maybe you didn't O, or maybe you O'ed much later than usual. i dont think wasting your money on daily HPTs is the answer. i did the same thing one cycle that ended up being a 70+ day cycle and it didnt do me any good.
i would either wait it out or go to your doctor and see if they could do blood or a sono to see if you actually ovulated. good luck!!
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BabyHopes15
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Re: guys i need advice
Posted by waytogo
when was the last time you tested? I'd test every other day...until you have A BFP or AF
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Posted 8/24/10 1:33 PM |
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Re: guys i need advice
My Dr told me that since my cycle ranges from 32 to 35 days, that 35 is enough and to call her when I hit that point. She'll then run a blood test to see if I'm pregnant since they're more accurate than home tests and then she'll give me Prometrium to start AF.
If you normally have a 39 day cycle and you're on CD 41, I'd call.
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Posted 8/24/10 3:52 PM |
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babylove26
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Re: guys i need advice ***small update***
i would call the doctor and ask for a blood test. I'm on CD 40 and went to the doctor on Friday and found out i had a bfn...but today i took an OPK and it was positive...don't lose hope it ain't over until AF comes!!!
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