Getting AF tomorrow...just frustrated

We have been "tryijng" since november. Only 4 months of ACTUALY trying, really. And of those 4 months, 2 of them were on 2dpo. 2 were on O day.

Im just frustrated that DH isnt feeling lie himslef (he wants to loose a little weight etc). I keep telling him I am WILDLY attracted to him which IS the case. I would sex everyday if he wanted....well, not EVERY day.

And we are good as far as NO pressure. We both want a child. We BOTH do NOT pressure the other. Its ok no matter what happens...

...but I would liek us to at LEAST REALLY try.

Vent and woe is me over. Thanks for listening.

Re: Getting AF tomorrow...just frustrated

I am so sorry. Do you express your feelings to him? I sometimes feel this way, like Im not attractive but DH has to keep reassuring me that I am. I hope you can get through this

Re: Getting AF tomorrow...just frustrated

talk to one another..i cannot express this enough

ttc is hard and can be a strain on a relationship..letting the other know how u r feeling and whatnot to me is so so so important

Re: Getting AF tomorrow...just frustrated

Just try taking the stress out of the situation as much as possible. Last month when we were 'trying' DH well (sorry TMI) finished outside of me. I left the bedroom crying. Which made him feel awful. And then the next night he felt so much pressure. I finally realized...we just have to live life. We can't always perform on a schedule and we just have to accept that. It will happen when it's meant to happen.