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 | The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups OF Coffee... a very true story, please take the time to read The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups OF Coffee
 
 
 
 When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours
 in a
 day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
 coffee.
 
 A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in
 front of
 him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
 empty
 mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked
 the
 students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
 
 The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the
 jar.
 He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
 the
 golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
 agreed it was.
 
 The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
 Of
 course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
 jar
 was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
 
 The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
 poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
 space
 between the sand. The students laughed.
 
 "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
 recognize
 that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
 things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your
 favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they
 remained,
 your life would still be full.
 
 The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house
 and
 your car.
 
 The sand is everything else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
 the
 jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf
 balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on
 the
 small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important
 to
 you.
 
 "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
 with
 your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out
 to
 dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house
 and
 fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that
 really
 matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
 
 One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
 represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.
 
 "It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
 there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
 
 Please share this with someone you care about. I JUST DID
 
 "Those who mind, don't matter; and those that matter don't mind."
 - Dr. Seuss
 
 Message edited 9/1/2006 8:52:21 AM. |