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Bxgell2Perfection
 
 Member since 5/05 16438 total posts Name:Beth
 | I just got my first review at my new job - pretty amazing considering I've only been here 3 months.  And, I have to say, it's such a nice, refreshing change to be recognized for my skills and accomplishments, instead of being told that I'm getting paid 40% less than my peers because "I'm a new mom" 
 I'm a broken record, I know, but I freakin' love this place
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			| Posted 6/28/07 8:44 AM   | 
	
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LisaI'm a PANK!!!
 
 Member since 5/05 22334 total posts Name:Professional Aunts No Kids
 | Re: I just got my first review Good for you!!
 I just started my new job the beginning of April, they had a paralegal appriciation day lunch the other day...I wasnt in so I didnt go but they gave each of us a $100 gift card to a restaurant group (there are 12 resturatns to choose from) I thought that was pretty nice considering my last place we got a $25 gc to a movie theather.
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			| Posted 6/28/07 8:46 AM   | 
	
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samiSo very blessed!! Thank u !!
 Member since 8/06 6524 total posts Name:
 | Re: I just got my first review Great! Good for you!  | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 8:47 AM   | 
	
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MoehickReady for the sun!
 
 Member since 5/05 30339 total posts Name:Properly perfect™
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			| Posted 6/28/07 8:50 AM   | 
	
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TreAnt427-
 Member since 8/06 8652 total posts Name:Tracy
 | Re: I just got my first review That's great!  Doesn't it make such a big difference when you really like where you work?! 
 
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			| Posted 6/28/07 8:58 AM   | 
	
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ElbeeZanzibar
 
 Member since 5/05 10767 total posts Name:Me
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			| Posted 6/28/07 8:58 AM   | 
	
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CaseyGirlMommy to 3 Boys :)
 
 Member since 5/05 19978 total posts Name:Jen - counting my blessings...
 | Re: I just got my first review You go girl!  Now, send some of that good look over here!   | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 9:49 AM   | 
	
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KrisTTwo Boys for Me!!
 
 Member since 1/07 5213 total posts Name:Kristin
 | Re: I just got my first review Posted by Bxgell2
 at my new job - pretty amazing considering I've only been here 3 months.  And, I have to say, it's such a nice, refreshing change to be recognized for my skills and accomplishments, instead of being told that I'm getting paid 40% less than my peers because "I'm a new mom"
 
 I'm a broken record, I know, but I freakin' love this place
   
 
 Awesome
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			| Posted 6/28/07 9:51 AM   | 
	
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GeraldineLovin Life........
 
 Member since 5/07 2388 total posts Name:Geraldine
 | Re: I just got my first review That's great..... it makes such a difference when you feel appreciated at work | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 9:54 AM   | 
	
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Tracey***********
 Member since 5/05 6297 total posts Name:Tracey - brideinapril
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			| Posted 6/28/07 9:59 AM   | 
	
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IluvBoNICKY & EVIE
 
 Member since 6/05 3321 total posts Name:Rose
 | Re: I just got my first review congratulations                                        | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 10:11 AM   | 
	
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JessieQRest in Peace baby Rogan
 
 Member since 6/07 1122 total posts Name:Jessica
 | Re: I just got my first review  That is great news! Having a boss who appreciates your work makes all the difference. 
 I am assuming you were talking about your old job when you said you were paid 40% less than your peers for being a new mother. That is ridiculous! My good friend told me when she was pregnant, she was so worried to tell her boss (a woman). When she did, her boss not only was totally supportive of her, but told her she knew she would be even more productive than her peers BECAUSE she would be a mother! She said not only would she develop skills to handle pressure, multitask more efficiently, etc, but because she would have her baby to come home to she would waste less time "BS-ing" with co-workers, on the internet, etc.
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			| Posted 6/28/07 10:11 AM   | 
	
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Bxgell2Perfection
 
 Member since 5/05 16438 total posts Name:Beth
 | Re: I just got my first review Posted by JessieQ
 
  That is great news! Having a boss who appreciates your work makes all the difference. 
 I am assuming you were talking about your old job when you said you were paid 40% less than your peers for being a new mother. That is ridiculous! My good friend told me when she was pregnant, she was so worried to tell her boss (a woman). When she did, her boss not only was totally supportive of her, but told her she knew she would be even more productive than her peers BECAUSE she would be a mother! She said not only would she develop skills to handle pressure, multitask more efficiently, etc, but because she would have her baby to come home to she would waste less time "BS-ing" with co-workers, on the internet, etc.
 
 
 Yes, it was my former employer.  Big firm took over our little firm, and when they took over, the senior partner from the old firm came into my office and told me my new salary (which was 40% less than a first year associate - I was a 3rd year), and when I responded in shock, he said, "well, you know, they took into consideration the fact that you're a new mom and there's no way you can perform at the same level as the other associates"
   
 I only wish more employers were like your good friend's - her response is admirable
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			| Posted 6/28/07 10:18 AM   | 
	
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PhylR.I.P. Sweet Mia ♥
 
 Member since 5/06 28918 total posts Name:The Mystical Azzhorse! ™
 | Re: I just got my first review Thats awsome! I can't believe it's been 3 months already!!!!    | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 10:33 AM   | 
	
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JessieQRest in Peace baby Rogan
 
 Member since 6/07 1122 total posts Name:Jessica
 | Re: I just got my first review Posted by Bxgell2
 
 Posted by JessieQ
 
  That is great news! Having a boss who appreciates your work makes all the difference. 
 I am assuming you were talking about your old job when you said you were paid 40% less than your peers for being a new mother. That is ridiculous! My good friend told me when she was pregnant, she was so worried to tell her boss (a woman). When she did, her boss not only was totally supportive of her, but told her she knew she would be even more productive than her peers BECAUSE she would be a mother! She said not only would she develop skills to handle pressure, multitask more efficiently, etc, but because she would have her baby to come home to she would waste less time "BS-ing" with co-workers, on the internet, etc.
 
 
 Yes, it was my former employer.  Big firm took over our little firm, and when they took over, the senior partner from the old firm came into my office and told me my new salary (which was 40% less than a first year associate - I was a 3rd year), and when I responded in shock, he said, "well, you know, they took into consideration the fact that you're a new mom and there's no way you can perform at the same level as the other associates"
   
 I only wish more employers were like your good friend's - her response is admirable
         
 
 That is ridiculous, I can't believe first that they would do that and second that this person told you this was the reason! I'm glad you got out of there, you seem really happy with your new job!
   
 I know, I definitely wish more employers were like my friend's boss. Actually my old boss reacted well when I told him I was pregnant, he even visited me in the hospital after she was born! So I can't complain. And my new boss is really supportive of me- I think it helps when your boss has kids of their own.
 
 Lucky for me my friend's boss is sort of a mentor to me, when I got pregnant (after my friend so I knew her reaction) I sat and talked with her boss and she gave me a lot of advice. I still keep in touch with her, she's in a related field to mine so she's a great ally to have in the future.
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			| Posted 6/28/07 10:47 AM   | 
	
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ShantiTrue love
 
 Member since 6/05 12653 total posts Name:
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			| Posted 6/28/07 10:56 AM   | 
	
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JP826=)
 
 Member since 9/06 10903 total posts Name:Me!!   All about ME!
 | Re: I just got my first review Congrats.   Being recognized for a job well done really does make a difference.  Even if it just a verbal token of appreciation - it goes a long way. You should be really proud of yourself & keep up the good work!  | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 11:01 AM   | 
	
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mommy2bellaWhere does time go?
 Member since 12/05 9747 total posts Name:Kelly
 | Re: I just got my first review Wow Beth, what an amazing turnaround...
 So happy that you are doing well
  
 Nothing like having a supportive upper management system.
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			| Posted 6/28/07 12:08 PM   | 
	
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MrsS2005Mom of 3
 
 Member since 11/05 13118 total posts Name:B
 | Re: I just got my first review That's great news.             It must feel great working at a place where you're actually appreciated.  I can't believe your old firm treated you so horribly. | 
			| Posted 6/28/07 12:22 PM   | 
	
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