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Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

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MayBbaby21
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Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

Another embarrassing TTC moment.

Saturday I went to use a gift card for a massage. So I'm filling out the forms and it asked if I was pregnant. I wrote no, but that I was TTC.
So the receptionist comes out to go over a few things with me. Mind you, this is in a room full of people waiting. So she says "Oh, you're trying to conceive?" I nodd, already feeling people looking at me. So then she says "It's tough. It seems like for the people who really want a baby, it takes longer, and for some it happens right away."
Right now my mouth is open. I can feel my face getting red because now everyone is looking at me.Chat Icon
As I'm a very private person, I was mortified. I never told her how long I was TTC. It could've been my first month!

I just couldn't believe she was talking about such a personal matter--my personal matter--in the waiting room full of people!

Really, what is wrong with people?!?!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/10 12:02 PM
 
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LoveforLO
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

Wow she needs to learn patient confidentiality. I'm sorry you had to experience this Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/10 12:08 PM
 

gforce
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

oh she suck. at the same time i think she was just trying to be sympathetic, but then again she doesn't know how long you've been trying.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/10 12:14 PM
 

MayBbaby21
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

I think she thought that's why I was there, but I never gave that impression. I just don't think they should go over health concerns out in the open. Take it into a treatment room!

Posted 2/22/10 12:24 PM
 

LadyBug1209
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

That's absolutely ridiculous! It's none of her business in the first place! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/10 1:47 PM
 

CallaLily
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

Wow. That was rude. Sorry you had to deal with that Chat Icon

Posted 2/22/10 4:42 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

That's rude.. I hate when you go to places like that.. like even drs appts.. and they ask personal questions out in the open!

Posted 2/22/10 5:10 PM
 

BabyFactory
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Can't tell ya ;)

Re: Forgot to tell you girls about this one...

That was rude. In a massage place, no less. Not even in a Dr. office Chat Icon Maybe she had been TTC and had a hard time and just assumed. Either way- still rude.

Posted 2/22/10 8:43 PM
 
 

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