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Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

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wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle

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L

Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

This is exactly how I feel....everytime I turn around I see another pregnant woman or someone else I know is pregnant. I am happy for them, but at the same time I think "Why not me? Why is this taking so long" .... and what REALLYYYYYY pi$$es me off is when they say "We werent even trying"... I really doubt thatChat Icon Well good for you... Ive been trying 8 months now and nothingChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Ok sorry vent over.... Chat Icon

Posted 6/4/10 9:54 PM
 
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God

Member since 10/07

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Me

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

i feel the same wayChat Icon the girl who got married on the same day with me ( in 2007) announced she is prego and it took one cycle for her.Chat Icon hang on thereChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/4/10 9:55 PM
 

MRSadenosine
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/09

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Name:
Tai

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I agree but one day we all will be in their shoes and guess what I will tell my story so another woman doesn't feel alone during the ttc process.

Posted 6/4/10 10:05 PM
 

wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle

Member since 10/09

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Name:
L

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

Yes you are right girls...thank youChat Icon I am just feeling really down right now and I just feel like its never going to happen for us... Im having one of those daysChat Icon

Posted 6/4/10 10:11 PM
 

FlowerWife
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Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

ugh i totally feel your pain. i feel like everyone in NYC is pregnant and they are all taunting me with their big fat bellies Chat Icon Chat Icon .

im on my 13th month and i know we will get there, i just feel so robbed that i had it and then it was taken away. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/4/2010 10:21:54 PM.

Posted 6/4/10 10:20 PM
 

wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle

Member since 10/09

1652 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

Posted by FlowerWife

ugh i totally feel your pain. i feel like everyone in NYC is pregnant and they are all taunting me with their big fat bellies Chat Icon Chat Icon .

im on my 13th month and i know we will get there, i just feel so robbed that i had it and then it was taken away. Chat Icon Chat Icon




Im so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

TTC is so much harder than I ever expected. Every month that passes, it just gets harder and harder for me because its an emotional rollercoasterChat Icon

I have a co-worker who just came out that she is preggo because she started showing and I am good friends with her and I am really happy for her.... but the other day she was wearing a cute dress and you saw her belly- I was talking to her and just started to stare at her belly. She totally noticed and I felt SO embarrassed!!!!!

I really hope we can all get our BFP soon because Im finding it harder and harder to move on each month....

Posted 6/4/10 10:32 PM
 

MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 7/09

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Name:
Christina

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I'm right there with ya, we've been trying for the same amount of time too. Hoping that this IVF works!

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Posted 6/4/10 11:32 PM
 

TTCwithHope
LIF Infant

Member since 4/10

297 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I noticed when I search fertility topics on this board (from years ago) in the search engine that most of the posters whom were posting TTC grief at that time now have pics of babies for their profile pic. Our time will comeChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/10 7:02 AM
 

WannaBbabyMama
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Member since 4/10

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Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I know how you feel. Chat Icon

I was just talking to DH about this last night and said how when we wanted something throughout our lives, we made it happen. When we wanted a college degree, we worked hard and got it. When we wanted a house, we saved up and made it happen...you get the idea. Now we both want a child more than anything and all we can do is BD, pray, and let nature take its course.

Posted 6/5/10 7:24 AM
 

VTTG0609
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V

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

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Posted 6/5/10 8:36 AM
 

MrsFein09
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Jenn

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

Ugh I feel the same way!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/10 8:38 AM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

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Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I feel like this all the time...especially since all my friends have kids.

I have seen 3 teenage girls in the past week who are PG. The other day I was pumping gas and one walked by with her PG belly. Chat Icon Then, I saw one of my former students yesterday and his older sister (who used to be a string bean) had a PG belly AND one of my former students is due ANY time now! She comes to my school to pick up a student and walks by me everyday. Chat Icon

I don't envy the position they are in because they have a long road ahead BUT I have my life in place, I can provide for a child but can't get PG. Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/10 9:38 AM
 

babylove628
mommy of two!

Member since 11/09

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Name:
Maggie

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

This used to bother me but after suffering 2 m/cs I really don't care because in reality, what difference does it make if they're pregnant or not? And how many girls go through miscarriages but never say it and then have babies? Who knows what they've gone through to get where they are? I am no longer jealous or envious bc everyone has their hardships in life and unfortunately we have to deal with this Chat Icon

2 weeks ago I went to the dr for more bloodwork, there was a happy pregnant girl with her hubby. I said to my DH, look how happy they are and how miserable I am that we lost our baby. And he said something so true, he goes "you think they don't have their own problems in life" Don't be jealous, our time will come....He was right!

Hang in there girls....our time will come and it will be sooo worth all of this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/10 9:48 AM
 

Harlow-J
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Member since 12/09

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Jen

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

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Posted 6/5/10 1:28 PM
 

kiwi86
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Member since 5/10

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Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

I feel the same way. There are 2 pregnant women on my block, plus 2 strolling around with their newborns. Also doesn't help that one of my students is pregnant and walking around with her belly!!!!!!!

Posted 6/5/10 4:23 PM
 

wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle

Member since 10/09

1652 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Everyone is Preggo Except Me...

Thank you everyone for your support!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I hope that we can all get a BFP soon and have a healthy 9 months!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/10 7:12 PM
 
 

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