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Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with dh/so?

Forum Opinion Poll
YES! That's why our marriage is so great... 28 56.00%
NO! He/She doesn't call me NAGATHA for no reason! 6 12.00%
We never argue, not matter what it's about. 2 4.00%
I only REALLY nag dh/so when AF is in town... 3 6.00%
I only nag dh/so when I'm annoyed at something else... I tend to take it out on him/her. 7 14.00%
This poll sucks! NYTEACHER, your other polls have been SO much better!!! hehehehe 4 8.00%
 

Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

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nyteacher13
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~ THERESA ~

Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

Just curious!!!

Or do you nitpick and nag about every little thing from leaving shoes in the wrong room to not cleaning up after himself in the bathroom?

Chat Icon I'm poll-crazy tonight!

Posted 1/26/07 11:04 PM
 

KPtoys
I'm getting old

Member since 5/05

8688 total posts

Name:
Karen

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

Im generally pretty laid back but some times I have one last nerve that DH likes to work.

Posted 1/26/07 11:06 PM
 

munchkinbugs
My little loves!

Member since 1/06

8093 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I know how to pick my battles...DH on the other hand doesn't.

Posted 1/26/07 11:38 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

Yup. I pick my battles well.

Posted 1/26/07 11:45 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Member since 5/05

9941 total posts

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Missy

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

other

i definitely pick my battles but i tend to pick the wrong ones...

like, ill let something big slide,
so inside i feel like im sacrificing but on the outside im cool with it

then other days i will make a fuss about something that didnt really bother me that much


does this make sense?

Posted 1/27/07 8:38 AM
 

leighdvm
My golden boys!

Member since 3/06

4419 total posts

Name:
Michele

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I've been working on that, actually.....I tend to be a nag when it comes to DH picking up after himself or something else that is minor and I can actually really get on his case about it and turn it into a fight......I am defintity a "type A" personality, while DH is the most laid-back person I know......I'm trying to relax!!!

Posted 1/27/07 9:17 AM
 

dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

11997 total posts

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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I'm pretty good about picking my battles but when those mood swings hit (as every woman deals with) all rationale goes right out the window and I nag about the most ridiculous things

Posted 1/27/07 9:31 AM
 

alisonggg
Cutie

Member since 3/06

4749 total posts

Name:
a

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

yup...in the beginning i couldnt and we had some rocky times....now I've learned and its great, of course when AF is in town its every man for themselves

Posted 1/27/07 10:27 AM
 

hazeleyes33
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

13060 total posts

Name:
Ginger

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I've tried, but it is hard.

Posted 1/27/07 11:43 AM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

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Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I nag if I am upset with something else.

Posted 1/27/07 12:27 PM
 

Shanti
True love

Member since 6/05

12653 total posts

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Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I am pretty good except during my time of the month... then I just pick at everything!

Posted 1/27/07 12:29 PM
 

suvenR
designer mutt

Member since 5/05

4239 total posts

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Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

yup. I definitely pick my battles. But, I'm sure he does too.

Posted 1/27/07 12:32 PM
 

azoodie

Member since 8/05

8377 total posts

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Team SEXY BACK

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I do pick my battles. I don't like nagging, and I don't want to be that person. I have a friend who is CONSTANTLY nagging her husband and it's no fun. Though I must admit, I think I have it easy, DH doesn't give me much to nag about so I think biased.

Posted 1/27/07 12:33 PM
 

neenie

Member since 5/05

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Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

Posted by MrsPorkChop

other

i definitely pick my battles but i tend to pick the wrong ones...

like, ill let something big slide,
so inside i feel like im sacrificing but on the outside im cool with it

then other days i will make a fuss about something that didnt really bother me that much


does this make sense?



I could have written this myself!

I'm trying to work on standing by what i DO care about, this way i don't turn into a wench when it comes to the things that i couldn't give 2 sh!ts about Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/27/07 12:43 PM
 

Jackie24
~We Did it~

Member since 7/06

6718 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

i def try to pick my battles, if not id be fighting all the time!

Posted 1/27/07 12:46 PM
 

july06bride
I'm a mom!

Member since 5/05

3966 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Do you "PICK YOUR BATTLES" with your dh/so?

I pick the battles, but it's usually worse when AF is arriving

Posted 1/27/07 1:12 PM
 
 

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