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Do some people just BUG you??

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conigs25
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Do some people just BUG you??

I work w/ this girl and for awhile, I think she was jealous of me. She would always ask OTHER PEOPLE about my FI (when i was still engaged) and my wedding. How come i am in good shape, what do i eat, how much do i workout? It really creeped me out. She was single and DYING for a BF and now, she has one, is soooo super skinny and just ANNOYS the CRAP out of me.
Now i find out that she is engaged w/ this HUGE ring and im alittle jealous. Like the roles are reversed.

W T F? Why do i care????????????

Message edited 8/15/2006 9:31:22 AM.

Posted 8/15/06 9:30 AM
 
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MrsERod
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

some people just have the ability to get under your skin!! just try to ignore her! Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 9:32 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

I think it's normal to miss that stage of your life a little. I know I do on occasion. My cousin recently got engaged and I was just like... ah..to be the bride to be again. But it's more nostalgic than envious.

Try to look at it that way and just be happy for her. Remember how happy you were about people being excited with you and for you.

Posted 8/15/06 9:34 AM
 

islandersgirl74
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Yeah, its funny. Sometimes there are some people that just rub your the wrong way and you cant even out your finger on what it is.

Posted 8/15/06 9:47 AM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Yes, there are three people here that just annoy me all day long - they are really loud and mostly obnoxious. Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 9:48 AM
 

saraH
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

yes, there are a few in my office that i just can't stand the sight of. no drama with them, just they rub me the wrong way.

Posted 8/15/06 9:48 AM
 

MrsS1126
MY FOREVER

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Jackie

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Yes, all the time sometimes way too much!! Especially this one person I am around all the time, she is just pure miserable 24/7 and I can't stand it or her for that matter!!

Posted 8/15/06 9:50 AM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

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Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

If she was so into YOU when you were going through the whole engagement/wedding planning process, I wouldn't be surprised is she was intentionally bragging in front of you.

Some people are just like that. They are green-eyed monsters when they see something they like/want. And the second they get something, they show it off incessantly!

Maybe you picked up on something about this girl that just isn't right and now she's really irking you.

Ignore her. Showing her any hint of curiosity or interest will only encourage her more.

Posted 8/15/06 10:04 AM
 

conigs25
So in love with this kid!

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Michele

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Posted by Erin0602

If she was so into YOU when you were going through the whole engagement/wedding planning process, I wouldn't be surprised is she was intentionally bragging in front of you.

Some people are just like that. They are green-eyed monsters when they see something they like/want. And the second they get something, they show it off incessantly!

Maybe you picked up on something about this girl that just isn't right and now she's really irking you.

Ignore her. Showing her any hint of curiosity or interest will only encourage her more.




You are 100% CORRECT!!!!! I just think i was put off by her from the beginning bc of her weird obsession w/ me, and now its like she IS me in a way. Does that make sense?
Like she was asking my friend all about my workout routine and eating and she totalyy "stole" it. She was NOT a workout person, nor did she eat well. Now i think she has an eating disorder bc of the new beau

Message edited 8/15/2006 10:16:33 AM.

Posted 8/15/06 10:15 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Yes, my boss. I ignore him as much as I can! Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 10:16 AM
 

AtomicMom
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Denise

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Posted by conigs25

Posted by Erin0602

If she was so into YOU when you were going through the whole engagement/wedding planning process, I wouldn't be surprised is she was intentionally bragging in front of you.

Some people are just like that. They are green-eyed monsters when they see something they like/want. And the second they get something, they show it off incessantly!

Maybe you picked up on something about this girl that just isn't right and now she's really irking you.

Ignore her. Showing her any hint of curiosity or interest will only encourage her more.




You are 100% CORRECT!!!!! I just think i was put off by her from the beginning bc of her weird obsession w/ me, and now its like she IS me in a way. Does that make sense?
Like she was asking my friend all about my workout routine and eating and she totalyy "stole" it. She was NOT a workout person, nor did she eat well. Now i think she has an eating disorder bc of the new beau



Imitation is the finest form of flattery...no matter how hard she tries to be you, she will ALWAYS be insecure about you and that is why she BRAGS!

Posted 8/15/06 10:17 AM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

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Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Posted by neesiepie


Imitation is the finest form of flattery...no matter how hard she tries to be you, she will ALWAYS be insecure about you and that is why she BRAGS!



Ditto!!


She's insecure. It's sad for her, but it's also somewhat of a compliment to be copied.

But nothing is ever as good as the original!!! She can try, but no matter what, she can't become you. You beat her to it! Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 10:47 AM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
Bailey

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D

Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon
I have a co-worker who is nice but I cannot stand him because anything anyone says he replies with "Oh Jeez!" Its soooo annoying to hear 80 times a day. Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/06 11:38 AM
 

Smileyd17
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Mommy

Re: Do some people just BUG you??





You are 100% CORRECT!!!!! I just think i was put off by her from the beginning bc of her weird obsession w/ me, and now its like she IS me in a way. Does that make sense?
Like she was asking my friend all about my workout routine and eating and she totalyy "stole" it. She was NOT a workout person, nor did she eat well. Now i think she has an eating disorder bc of the new beau


Dont take that as a bad thing...look at it that she looked up to you.
I have seen people try to be other people. Its obvious they are unhappy with who they are and want to be "someone" else.
Dont let it bother you. You are happy with who you are right? So there.
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Posted 8/15/06 11:51 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

YES. Chat Icon I hate when cr@p like that happens. Like she memorized your life & made a point to "over do"

Message edited 8/15/2006 12:05:45 PM.

Posted 8/15/06 12:04 PM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

Some people can't just help themselves....

Posted 8/15/06 12:05 PM
 

beautyq115
New Year!

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Re: Do some people just BUG you??

There are many people who annoy the CRAP out of me...I let people get to me...

BTW Michele....you are beautiful...had a gorgeous wedding and a have a gorgeous ring...screw this beoch!

Posted 8/15/06 12:07 PM
 
 

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