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Michi
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Disappointing Friends
Is it just me or do you feel the older you get the less you have dependable friends. It seems that i have to always be the one to make the effort--be it email or call them first or they disappear off the face of the earth..also i have a friend on monday nite who called me at 10:30 (10:30 at nite, when im sleeping and she knows this) to basically b*tch me out that I didnt return her call on Sunday... um i was busy--just b/c i have a cell phone doesnt mean i can return ur call within 5 seconds.. i dont need to speak to my friends every day--once a week is fine by me, but im so disappointed in about 75% of the pple i used to consider friends, that I am writing them all off. sad yet true..
Message edited 5/3/2006 10:02:33 AM.
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Shorty
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Re: Disappointing Friends
Part of growing up is understanding that there are priorities like work and school that come before returning a BS phone call from a friend. Your friend is being a little bit of a snot.
WE love ya, Mich 
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:09 AM |
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Michi
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Re: Disappointing Friends
Posted by Shorty
Part of growing up is understanding that there are priorities like work and school that come before returning a BS phone call from a friend. Your friend is being a little bit of a snot.
WE love ya, Mich
thanks doll! love ya too..
oh yes that friend is definitly a snot...just out of spite she aint getting a call from me for some time, i dont need the aggrivation..i feel like im in 2 relationships cause of her..totally ridiculous
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:10 AM |
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Shorty
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Re: Disappointing Friends
I'm dealing with the same thing right now. Its finals time - I'm having a tough time as it is, and my friends' "love me, hug me, pay attention to me" comments are realllly starting to STRESS ME OUT 
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:12 AM |
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Michi
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Re: Disappointing Friends
Posted by Shorty
I'm dealing with the same thing right now. Its finals time - I'm having a tough time as it is, and my friends' "love me, hug me, pay attention to me" comments are realllly starting to STRESS ME OUT
yeah shorty i have been meaning to talk to you about that, id really appreciate if ud designate 12 minutes per day to devote all ur brain energy to me, and only me, thanks bunches! 
seriously tho goodluck with all ur stuff hunnie u will do fabulous!!! no stress
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:14 AM |
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Shorty
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Re: Disappointing Friends
mich, i can't go a minute over 7.
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:15 AM |
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Michi
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Re: Disappointing Friends
Posted by Shorty
mich, i can't go a minute over 7.
u have A+ time management skillz
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| Posted 5/3/06 10:15 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Disappointing Friends
Actually it's been the opposite - maybe it's because I've ignored my friends for so long that all the 2nd tier ones have dropped off.
I think everyone has a lot on their plate - and whatever time we can spare to maintain our friendships we do. For me, friends just have to understand that otherwise they aren't friends, they're albatrosses.
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