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Did you ever hit someone?

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MsMBV
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by Ophelia

I have been in many physical altercations.

In all honesty, my first instinct is to hit when I am angry.

I pride myself on the fact that I have NEVER hit first (but always last Chat Icon ) and have not had a fight since my teens, but I have been OH SO TEMPTED a few times to beat the living shyt out of a few people.

Violent tempers run in my family, but I have learned to manage mine fairly well...one of the things I am proudest of.

My father taught us to always fight, to never be afraid...especially of men...no matter how big, you can still hurt them if you get the right spot.

I have also taken jiu jitsu...ha ha..I am a white belt, black stripe! Chat Icon

eta: I can't believe how many of you can either count the fights you've been in or that have not been in one at ALL??

thank God for you girls that are bruisers like me Chat Icon

LOL....yeah we were raised to defend ourselves against anyone & never expect someone else to "save us."

I tried to take formal training, but the closest thing I could stomach was Tai Zen. I hated all the "rules" in formal fighting. I am more of an instinct girl.

I have major anger issues & also can get very violent if pushed. I put a heavy bag in my house & it seems to help.

Posted 4/17/07 10:54 AM
 
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stayandjohn
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Many many times.

When I was about 22 my brother let me borrow his brand new car, I was at a stop light with one car in front of me who attempted to go through the light but chickend out the last second, she had a good 20 feet between us, but she backed up so fast she ended up hitting me. I got out to survey the damage and this true typical Staten Island chick gets out yelling at me saying I moved up as she moved back. We got into an arguement and she put her finger in my face I said get your finger out of my face, 3x I told her, she didnt comply so I hauled back and punched her dead in the mouth.

She jumped back into her car yelled something and drove off

Posted 4/17/07 10:56 AM
 

domsmom52704
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Yup Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 10:59 AM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

yep - plenty of timesChat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 11:22 AM
 

Maathy317
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D

Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by Shorty

Not since first grade - a couple of meanie boys on the playground.

They wouldn't let me play second base! At that point in my life, I wasn't sure if I was right or lefty at baseball (I'm ambidextrous), so I was trying both. They weren't patient, told me to stand in right/centerish field and wait for the inning to be over.

We soon learned that I am righty at baseball...because my right hook was way stronger than my left. Chat Icon

I made one bleed (nose shot!) and the other threw up (Gut punch right after lunch). The principal/teacher/lunch aides never said 2 words to me...I think they liked seeing the bullies put in their place.

eta: I can't believe i forgot this one! About a year ago, i was at a Knicks game with Rich. When the game ended, the mad dash to the exits began, and Rich and I got separated. While standing in the crowd, I felt a hand on my azz....I turned my head and it was some strange drunken guy i'd never seen before. He muttered, "tiiiiiiittttttts" while staring at my chest - honestly, I'd never felt so uncomfortable...then he moved his hands up to actually TOUCH ME and I lost it. I threw my free giveaway (a bobble head!) right at his drunk face, then while he was down with his hands on his face, I kneed him in the face, punched him in the side of the head, kicked him in the shins, and he fell....topped it off with a swift kick to the nuts and I was done. Chat Icon The guys around me started cheering and calling me champ Chat Icon As soon as I found Rich and was safe on the escalator, I checked my Chat Icon and realized my knuckles were bleeding. Darn dry skin!



I would have paid good money to see this. Bravo!Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 11:24 AM
 

MrsQ
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Yes a few in high school. They hit me first but as my mom always told me "They hit you first beat the $hit out of them". Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 11:29 AM
 

LaurenExp
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

I actually punched a VERY tall boy in 5th grade defending my friend. Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 11:30 AM
 

tourist

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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by Ophelia

eta: I can't believe how many of you can either count the fights you've been in or that have not been in one at ALL??

thank God for you girls that are bruisers like me Chat Icon



I'm not sure violence is something to be prud of, but it's better then letting yourself get beat on I suppose.

I saw three teenage girls on the train this morning talking about who wanted to fight them & who they wanted to fight, and how mediation just makes them want to figth more, and I thought it was really sad.Chat Icon

Message edited 4/17/2007 12:09:53 PM.

Posted 4/17/07 12:07 PM
 

CaMacho
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Nope, never.

Unless you count the little fights my sis and I had when we were younger (hair pulling, pinching, etc). Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 12:15 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by tourist

Posted by Ophelia

eta: I can't believe how many of you can either count the fights you've been in or that have not been in one at ALL??

thank God for you girls that are bruisers like me Chat Icon



I'm not sure violence is something to be prud of, but it's better then letting yourself get beat on I suppose.




actually, if you would have read or at least quoted my whole post, you would have noted that I SAID I am most proud of the fact that I am able to control my anger and not get violent.

the edit was making light of it....so I feel this little tidbit is unnecessary on your part.

thanks.

Posted 4/17/07 12:17 PM
 

MST9106
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

I was involved in a couple of brawls...one in 7th grade in our school's hallway ( I beat the living cr@p out of a chick that was just messing with me too much), and another time in a bar...but that was a drunken brawl and I was a teenager.

Not proud of them bc I don't think getting physical solves the problem, but at that time it worked.

Posted 4/17/07 12:18 PM
 

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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

yesChat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 12:19 PM
 

smdl
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Yes, but that was a LONG time ago. I would not do it anymore even if I wanted to or it was deserved.

I would blame it on Youth.

Posted 4/17/07 12:23 PM
 

tray831
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?



I hit a kid in either 10th or 11th grade cuz he was getting on my nerves and flappin' his mouth.

So I punched him.........and I remember one of the kids in the class said "wow, nice uppercut" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 12:25 PM
 

Laura1
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

When I was in junior high, I hit a mean boy over the head with my flute case on the bus....we both got kicked off the bus.
That is the extent of my fighting

Posted 4/17/07 1:07 PM
 

My2Boys
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

I was thinking about this recently. Chat Icon I definitely had some tussles with my siblings. Chat Icon I *think* I hit a friend in 5th grade, although I can't remember if I actually hit her or just threatened to hit her. Chat Icon

I also slapped a girl across the face in high school because she asked to try on my pearl ring that I had just gotten for my Sweet 16 and then said she wasn't giving it back. Yeah, she gave it back. Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 1:46 PM
 

evnme
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by CathyB

Posted by evnme

i did slap an exboyfriend in the face once.
i was in 10th grade. he broke up w/ me to be w/ another girl. he was a senior and was getting ready to leave for college.
he told me he couldnt go away being in a relationship, but then in the same breath he told me he wanted to be w/ someone else and the girl he dumped me for went to another college several states away.
go figure....

so i slapped him across the face.



For a second I thought I was going to be able to tease Rick that you slapped him. Chat Icon



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Posted 4/17/07 1:53 PM
 

chikita315
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

A brawl in college

My sister's ex

Posted 4/17/07 1:57 PM
 

LBG30
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

I just started to LOL at this post cause yes I did hit someone and I have to say it was Diana1215!! BUT it was by mistake!
We were out one night @ a bar and my ex bf was talking to his ex gf and I went up to her and started with her I was drunk and tried to hit her but Diana was trying to break it up and by accident I hit her instead!!!! Good timesChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 2:17 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Posted by LBG30

I just started to LOL at this post cause yes I did hit someone and I have to say it was Diana1215!! BUT it was by mistake!
We were out one night @ a bar and my ex bf was talking to his ex gf and I went up to her and started with her I was drunk and tried to hit her but Diana was trying to break it up and by accident I hit her instead!!!! Good timesChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Yes - I remember it well!!!! Here I am trying to be a good samaritian and I get clocked in the face! LOL!

Posted 4/17/07 2:37 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Not in my adult life.

When we were kids I used to hit my sister. Does that count?

Posted 4/17/07 2:47 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Many brawls with my brother and sister when we were younger.

Posted 4/17/07 3:25 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Yes! A few times. Chat Icon <--Reminds me of Rocky

Posted 4/17/07 4:03 PM
 

Cookiegobbler
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

Yes Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 4:17 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Did you ever hit someone?

I have, my husband.Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/07 5:44 PM
 
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