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PennyCat
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Name: Jib
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DH and the RE....
My DH is coming with me to the RE next week. It will be my first appointment.
Out of curiosity though, how many people have their DH come with them to the first appointment? I assume everyone's DH doesn't come to EVERY appointment or am I wrong..
Message edited 1/16/2010 10:51:00 PM.
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Posted 1/16/10 10:50 PM |
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dajc23
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Member since 1/09 4980 total posts
Name: Dana
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Re: DH and the RE....
DH came with me to the first one. We went over our medical history, ordered DH's sperm analysis and went over our course of action.
Definitely good to have him there!
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Posted 1/16/10 11:11 PM |
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ricaim
LIF Adult

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Re: DH and the RE....
Posted by dajc23
DH came with me to the first one. We went over our medical history, ordered DH's sperm analysis and went over our course of action.
Definitely good to have him there! ITA
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Posted 1/16/10 11:14 PM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time

Member since 11/07 7397 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: DH and the RE....
I would definitely want my DH there for a first appointment with an RE.
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Posted 1/17/10 2:42 AM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

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Re: DH and the RE....
My DH came to only a handful of RE appts with me however, once we were pregnant with my DD he did come to EVERY single RE and OB visit where we had a sonogram!!
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Posted 1/17/10 7:20 AM |
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Re: DH and the RE....
I did everything over the phone and reported back to him-Dr. B.
ETA-Once I was PG-every sono until we found out the sex and any important appointments.
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kandi982
LIF Infant

Member since 1/10 69 total posts
Name: Lu
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Re: DH and the RE....
DH is coming with me for my first one next week...the clinic requested that he be there so i guess it's agood idea! let us know how it goes (im curious as to what to expect!)
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Posted 1/17/10 8:45 AM |
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wannabemomma
LIF Infant

Member since 9/09 348 total posts
Name: E
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Re: DH and the RE....
DH came with me to the very first appointment and I'm glad I had him with me. They asked us some questions on medical history and such.
I went by myself for bloodwork because I didn't think he needed to be there. I will also go by myself for my Day 3 bloodwork which should be at some point next week.
I will have him come with me if I need any other testing done there after. It's nice to have someone to help you calm down (if that's how you are- I know I need him there to say..RELAX!)
Hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!
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Posted 1/17/10 8:46 AM |
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LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!
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Re: DH and the RE....
Yes, my DH came to my first appt but I've been going for all the bloodwork with either my Mom or alone.
Good Luck!
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Posted 1/17/10 8:49 AM |
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JRsMaMa
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07 2044 total posts
Name: Jake's Mama
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Re: DH and the RE....
I am also have my 1st appointment next week and DH is coming with me. Unless he is really unable to come I am sure he'll want to be at every appt.
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Posted 1/17/10 9:52 AM |
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ttcc
LIF Toddler
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Re: DH and the RE....
DH did not come to any RE appoitments with me. I didn't see a reason for him to. Plus, you end up going to so many that it would be impossible to schedule them around 2 people.
He did come to the IUI's.
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Posted 1/17/10 10:07 AM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...

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Re: DH and the RE....
Posted by ttcc
DH did not come to any RE appoitments with me. I didn't see a reason for him to. Plus, you end up going to so many that it would be impossible to schedule them around 2 people.
He did come to the IUI's.
same here. DH hasnt come to any appointments with me. i never even thought twice about it.
but im one of those mega independent people and DH sometimes just slows me down so i prefer to do most things on my own unless it is 100% necessary that he's there. i never even asked if he wanted to come with me.
he's done the SA and we are doing a different semen test this week, so he does what he needs to do.
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Posted 1/17/10 10:51 AM |
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Re: DH and the RE....
DH is coming with me for the 1st and then we will see from there. I usually need him for bloodwork...I pass out from time to time....hopefully that will stop LOL
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Posted 1/17/10 11:13 AM |
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MrsRbk
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Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: DH and the RE....
My DH was required to be at the first appointment with me. The RE wanted to go through both of our medical histories. They took blood from both of us and DH had to set up an appointment for a SA to be done before they would come up with any treatment plan for us.
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Posted 1/17/10 12:42 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: DH and the RE....
I had DH come to the first appt. Most of the blood work I have done on my own. Except the one test which involved a lot of blood work.. (i had him come just incase i got dizzy)
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Posted 1/17/10 1:51 PM |
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