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Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

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hazeleyes33
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Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

I was wondering if anyone has had a close relative or friend die and if they ever "contacted" you. I still get very depressed over my dad passing (even though I know it has only been a month) and I heard John Edward say last night that sometimes the person will do things to know they are around, smells, feelings. I did smell flowers once when there were none around but I just feel like I want to KNOW that my dad is ok and still around. I have some issues with him being closer to my sister before his death (mostly because she doesn't work though and he know she was home and called her all the time). I feel like he was mad at me because I didn't call and talk to him all the time. I talk to my mom once a week but we never really spoke all the time. That was just our relationship.
Thanks!

Posted 4/1/06 11:56 AM
 
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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

My grandmother and I shared the same birthday, and she always said that I was the best birthday present she ever had. She died 7 years ago, and on my 1st birthday after her death, I was very down since Grandma and I had always celebrated together. To make it more cheerful, my mom got 3 helium balloons and tied them to the back of my chair. As soon as my fam finished singing Happy Birthday, the balloons all popped for no reason. It remains one of the strangest things that has ever happened, and I would like to think that it was my grandmother sharing our special day with me.

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Posted 4/1/06 12:16 PM
 

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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

Posted by hazeleyes33

I was wondering if anyone has had a close relative or friend die and if they ever "contacted" you. I still get very depressed over my dad passing (even though I know it has only been a month) and I heard John Edward say last night that sometimes the person will do things to know they are around, smells, feelings. I did smell flowers once when there were none around but I just feel like I want to KNOW that my dad is ok and still around. I have some issues with him being closer to my sister before his death (mostly because she doesn't work though and he know she was home and called her all the time). I feel like he was mad at me because I didn't call and talk to him all the time. I talk to my mom once a week but we never really spoke all the time. That was just our relationship.
Thanks!



i wouldn't say contacted me...But i felt i have gotten signs that i feel was for me to know that they are ok and happy

ETA...i think the sign maybe your feelings right now...And maybe take this opportunity to have a better relationship with your mom.JMHO

Message edited 4/1/2006 12:33:51 PM.

Posted 4/1/06 12:32 PM
 

Salason

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I've gotten some very weird signs from my dad including this whoosh (i dont know how else to describe it) through my body where it feels like he's just there. it's so hard to explain but very freaky.

Posted 4/1/06 12:40 PM
 

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I cant say I have every been "contacted" but before my mom died we had a few conversations about some stuff that she was worried about and things going on!

2 days after she passed a neighbor (a good friend of my moms) stopped me to tell me about her dream. In the dream my mom told her to tell me a few things! Well the things that she wanted Joan to tell me hit so close tto home, they were some of the things we spoke of before she died!

So I TOTALLY believe that those who have passed can contact you!
I also have a friend who went to John Edwards and the things he said were all about her daughter who died of lukemia!(sorry cant spell)

Posted 4/1/06 1:57 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

Posted by Kelly9904

I cant say I have every been "contacted" but before my mom died we had a few conversations about some stuff that she was worried about and things going on!

2 days after she passed a neighbor (a good friend of my moms) stopped me to tell me about her dream. In the dream my mom told her to tell me a few things! Well the things that she wanted Joan to tell me hit so close tto home, they were some of the things we spoke of before she died!

So I TOTALLY believe that those who have passed can contact you!
I also have a friend who went to John Edwards and the things he said were all about her daughter who died of lukemia!(sorry cant spell)



I was thinking of going to John Edward. He is going to be in Bayshore this month but it is $125 and you might not get picked.

Posted 4/1/06 3:08 PM
 

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I've seen John Edward - plus an old friend of mine is pretty good friends with him.

I've had close relatives that passed - and had some things happen afterwards that made me think they were in a good place & at peace - and more importantly that everything was going to be ok for the people they've left behind.

My old boss used to say she felt her daughter's presence and when she saw things that remind her of her daughter used to take it as a sign of her daughter being around her still.

Truth or not, it certainly helps people deal with the anguish of not having that person around. I would also take it as a sign that you should be talking to both your mom & your sister about things. You never know what you might learn from them.
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Posted 4/1/06 3:13 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

Posted by nrthshgrl

I've seen John Edward - plus an old friend of mine is pretty good friends with him.

I've had close relatives that passed - and had some things happen afterwards that made me think they were in a good place & at peace - and more importantly that everything was going to be ok for the people they've left behind.

My old boss used to say she felt her daughter's presence and when she saw things that remind her of her daughter used to take it as a sign of her daughter being around her still.

Truth or not, it certainly helps people deal with the anguish of not having that person around. I would also take it as a sign that you should be talking to both your mom & your sister about things. You never know what you might learn from them.
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Thanks so much. I just felt left out because I had a heart procedure and they felt they shouldn't tell me everything about my dad because they felt it was not good for me. That upset me a little but I understood but my procedure had nothing to do with that. I was very surprised when I got the call that we had to go and fly and see him and my sister was already prepared.

Posted 4/1/06 7:38 PM
 

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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

yes, I have been. I am often "contacted" by loved ones, and also by people I don't know.

Iknow, it sounds really weird.

Posted 4/2/06 12:33 AM
 

Mrs.B717
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I know this will sound weird but I believe that my grandmother has contacted my mother and i several times.....she moves a lladro that used to be hers. She only did it when my uncle was having trouble and it was like a sign for my mom to take care of him because as soon as she helped my uncle it stopped moving. We never saw it move but it would be positioned on the edge of the shelf facing out. It normally was in the back and facing the side......it was strange. Also the lladro was a boy...the only boy lladro that she has.

Posted 4/2/06 12:47 AM
 

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Okay this should blow your mind...
about a month ago...My husband had a dream about 5 fish...(we dont fish). Usually means pregnancy.
the next nite my dad who passed away 4 months ago came into my dreams and held my face said "You are beautiful", handed me gifts for a baby and then was riding on a little choo choo train with a little boy. Okay so days later, I felt sever cramping and was like what the heck...(never thinking I was pregnant). I went on to test bc of the dreams and sure enough I got a BFP. Strange, huh! I also thought I would never hear from my father but I did. Its hard at times. Hang in there!

Posted 4/2/06 9:36 AM
 

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Posted 4/2/06 9:56 AM
 

PrincessP
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how did u get tixx for john edwards?

Posted 4/2/06 10:38 AM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

Posted by PrincessP

Okay this should blow your mind...
about a month ago...My husband had a dream about 5 fish...(we dont fish). Usually means pregnancy.
the next nite my dad who passed away 4 months ago came into my dreams and held my face said "You are beautiful", handed me gifts for a baby and then was riding on a little choo choo train with a little boy. Okay so days later, I felt sever cramping and was like what the heck...(never thinking I was pregnant). I went on to test bc of the dreams and sure enough I got a BFP. Strange, huh! I also thought I would never hear from my father but I did. Its hard at times. Hang in there!




I saw that on a "miracle" show too that her father came into her and her mom's dream the same night about a baby!!

Posted 4/2/06 1:55 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Deceased Parent/Spouse/Close Relative?

Posted by PrincessP

how did u get tixx for john edwards?




You can go on johnedward.net and order tickets on there. There are 2 shows in Bayshore and I think 2 in NYC that are not sold out yet.

Posted 4/2/06 1:56 PM
 
 

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