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Boy did I have a reality check today.

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MrsYank
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Boy did I have a reality check today.

DD is 2 months and I haven't bought new clothes. I've been wearing my maternity pants with bella band and sweats since we don't really go "out" anywhere yet.

Well we are going away next week so I figured I'd buy a new pair of jeans just to hold me over until I lose the weight I need to lose.

Well ... I went up 3 sizes. I want to cry. I gained 40 lbs with pregnancy but lost 28 so far. I was 20 lbs heavier than I would have liked before I was pregnant so I just feel like a big mush.

And- I feel like my c section scar is an automatic roll maker. Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/11 3:56 PM
 
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JoJo2010
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

Please remember you are only 2 months pp. I am 9 months and JUST starting to get my body back, which is what alot of people told me, it takes 9 months to make a baby, give your body 9 months to go back.

ETS; I JUST bought new clothes this past weekend, I lived in leggings and sweats for 9 months, in the summer all I wore was dresses!

Message edited 1/4/2011 3:58:21 PM.

Posted 1/4/11 3:57 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

do not beat yourself up.. you are only 2 months PP.
give it time, you are taking care of a newborn.

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Posted 1/4/11 3:59 PM
 

Jodee
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Danielle

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

No matter WHAT the scale says - your body has to revert back to it's original shape - your body took 9 months to accomodate growing a child, and now you need to give your body time to go back.... our hips have widened, our shape has changed, heck - everything is different.... it will go back...!!

Posted 1/4/11 4:19 PM
 

MrsYank
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

thanks Chat Icon you are all right! I got the OK from the doc to work out again so once i get a routine i'll start to feel betterChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/11 4:41 PM
 

Bridex100
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Momx100

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

If I remember correctly, my weight dropped pretty quickly (except the last 5 pounds) but it was distributed totally differently so my pants didn't fit for months.

By 10 months, I was back to my normal shape. Everyone told me it took me 9 months for pregnancy and that it takes about the same time to go back.

Posted 1/4/11 4:47 PM
 

ChrisDee
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Christine

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

12 weeks was the magic number for me. It will happen, don't be frustrated just yet!

Posted 1/4/11 4:50 PM
 

SecretTTCer
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

I remember feeling the same way at 2 months pp. It is too soon. The weight will continue to just come off on its own especially if you are BFing. For me, it took six months.

Posted 1/4/11 4:57 PM
 

Pray4Baby2010
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

I'm right there with you- 7 weeks pp and I am 20 pounds above where I started- which was not where I wanted to be with anyway

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Posted 1/4/11 5:05 PM
 

bride07
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Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.



It takes time, you will get there.

I am only 2 weeks post partum, I am already stressing too. I know it will take some time but it's hard not to feel frumpy when I'm in sweats and maternity clothes. I hope sooner rather than later I will return to pre-pregnancy size.


We will both get there!!

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Posted 1/4/11 5:17 PM
 

imyself

Member since 10/06

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me

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon 9 months on 9 months off. Even when you lose all the weight things may not fit right. Just remember you will get your body back. It just takes time Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/11 5:19 PM
 

blaine08
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Member since 7/10

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Name:
Joy

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

I am 2 mos pp as well. Nothing fits me anymore and I've gone up 4 sizes. My belly looks like I'm in the 1st trimester. Hips are much bigger with love handles hanging out. It's depressing. =( I need to start working out and go on a diet (not bf). Its nice to know other mothers say it takes 9 mos bc i've seen some that go back to pre preg size right after the baby

Posted 1/4/11 5:46 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Member since 2/07

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Beth

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

I totally understand your frustration. I actually weigh about 10 lbs. less than I did before I conceived either of my children, and NONE of my clothes from that time fit me.

I'm getting back to WW ASAP.

Lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you, because I understand how frustrating it is to have a closet full of clothes that you can't wear...even though the scale says you SHOULD be able to.

Posted 1/4/11 6:45 PM
 

BabysMomma29
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Member since 10/08

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Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: Boy did I have a reality check today.

I think most of us have felt this way. DS is 5 months old and I haven't even tried to wear non-maternity pants yet! I wear them or sweats. I went back to work rather quickly too and it's been difficult. I keep telling myself that it took 9 months to get this way, so it will take time to get back. I'm starting WW at work so I'm hoping that helps Chat Icon Don't stress too much- we've all been there or in my case, is there Chat Icon

Posted 1/4/11 6:48 PM
 
 

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