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MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?
Member since 1/08 1705 total posts
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Nikole
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BFN...
So, I tested this morning, knowing that AF is only two days away... and a BFN.
The worst part is that the secretaries at my Dr.'s office say that the tests are just as sensitive as theirs, so if it's negative it's negative...
I don't think this is our month. Something in my body is telling me that I "f'd" up again and didn't get it right... 
Of course, I can't tell DH about it, 'cuz he'll just get mad that I'm testing without being late...
I don't understand how crack heads and teenagers get pregnant whenever the wind blows, but we try and try and get nothing every G-dd-m month! We just got back from our friends in VA who have a 10 month old and all she does is b*tch about how he's messed up her "fun"... 
We WANT to have to wake up in the middle of the night repeatedly, we WANT to be spit up on... We WANT to have to do endless loads of laundry...
I hate this...
Maybe if I say I don't want this, it'll happen for us too...
Sorry... I have no other outlet...
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Posted 8/12/08 9:20 AM  |
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QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice
Member since 7/08 1351 total posts
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Liz
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Re: BFN...
I am so sorry. It will happen for you....
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:27 AM |
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MeeshMosh
last month on leave!
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Re: BFN...
hang in there!! it will happen!!!  
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:35 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: BFN...
i'm sorry... it will happen for you!!
i think for myself also that im putting too much pressure on us and the stress is not healthy when TTC.. .
hang in there!!
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:38 AM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: BFN...
It will happen!!!
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:44 AM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 10:52 AM |
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Angel321
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Re: BFN...
i know the feeling all too well....believe me.
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| Posted 8/12/08 10:54 AM |
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MrsRbk
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Michelle
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Re: BFN...
Posted by MrDeeNMe
So, I tested this morning, knowing that AF is only two days away... and a BFN.
The worst part is that the secretaries at my Dr.'s office say that the tests are just as sensitive as theirs, so if it's negative it's negative...
That's not true at all. Many people don't get a BFP on a HPT until AFTER their period is late.
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:06 AM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!
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Jackie
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:13 AM |
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LnR6604
I'm Gonna be a Big Brother
Member since 5/05 1647 total posts
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Licia
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Re: BFN...
I know its hard to do, but you need to try to relax. The anticipation of getting pg and having a child can be overwhelming, disappointing and VERY STRESSFUL, all of which can make you an emotional roller coaster. I obsessed the first few months of TTC with our first....BFN's is all I got....One month I took 15 tests...yes I obsessed...Finally I decided that I would let nature take its course....I stopped charting ( I was always very regular) stopped worrying and that month I got my BFP. Stress can make it hard for you to get PG so try to take a step back and enjoy life....it will happen for you I promise!!!
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:20 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys
Member since 2/07 3885 total posts
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proud mommy
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Re: BFN...
hang in there! you're not out yet
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:22 AM |
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Terry34
So Grateful for All We Have!
Member since 6/08 1104 total posts
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Terry
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Re: BFN...
You're not out until AF comes.  Hang in there.
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:27 AM |
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jea128
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 11:31 AM |
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MrsS518
Big Sister to be!
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Tara
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 12:19 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Jen
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 2:17 PM |
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MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?
Member since 1/08 1705 total posts
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Nikole
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Re: BFN...
Posted by MrsRbk
That's not true at all. Many people don't get a BFP on a HPT until AFTER their period is late.
So... what should I do then?? Wait until Thursday to test (that's when AF is due)?? or should I wait another week??
I don't understand why the secretaries/nurses at the Dr.'s office are so negative...
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:30 PM |
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teenigrrl
LIF Toddler
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Tina
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Re: BFN...
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| Posted 8/12/08 9:39 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
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