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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
Member since 8/11 3550 total posts
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Cindy
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Bad news...
I tested yesterday at 8dp5dt and it was a BFN  I was balling for an hr at least...I was hopeful that this would work for us but sadly it didnt...I am just numb and as I write this I am crying...my DH says its not the end of the world and we have frozen...he is the ever optimist but I am just so depressed...I just think that there must be something wrong with me that even IVF cannot fix...I know IVF is not 100% but this has been so hard emotionally that I dont even know how to deal with it...I know in the end once we have a baby this will all feel like a bad dream but I want its just hard to see the end when I am feeling like this...I had my beta this morning and I started to cry as they were taking it... I asked a nurse about the FET and they said I may need to wait a cycle since I had a high E2 which got me crying cause I want to jump into it so I have something to look forward to...I have a consult with San Roman tomorrow afternoon to go over the protocol and I hope that I can get started ASAP.
sorry to be a monday downer...I know there was a BFP streak 
Message edited 7/30/2012 8:03:30 AM.
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Re: Bad news...
I'm so sorry 
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MissMeliss
Love my kids
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: Bad news...
i'm so sorry
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LoveLee2009
LIF Infant
Member since 6/12 275 total posts
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St.Gerard
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Re: Bad news...
i am so sorry!
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
Member since 5/11 7632 total posts
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Momma <3
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Re: Bad news...
I am so sorry
I hope things move along quickly so you can get started on your FET ASAP!
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lulugrrl
My 3 Blessings
Member since 3/06 6551 total posts
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Re: Bad news...
I am so sorry.. I hope you are able to move to the new step quickly, so you can focus on that.
Message edited 7/30/2012 9:28:03 AM.
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moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!
Member since 2/11 5043 total posts
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Antonella
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shazza211
My life is complete
Member since 9/07 1580 total posts
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Sharon
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ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls
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Re: Bad news...
im so sorry.
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| Posted 7/30/12 11:03 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: Bad news...
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Bad news...
I am sovery sorry! I will be fming you ASAP!
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| Posted 7/30/12 11:21 AM |
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Wishes1111
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/10 853 total posts
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Bad news...
so sorry
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| Posted 7/30/12 11:22 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult
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Re: Bad news...
So sorry.
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| Posted 7/30/12 11:40 AM |
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stargazerlily
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/11 706 total posts
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Lara
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Re: Bad news...
Your time will come.
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| Posted 7/30/12 11:50 AM |
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JulieLO
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Bad news...
Im so sorry!!!! I know how bad you want this--im sure we all do...
There is nothing wrong with you...I think that when we hear IVF and that the embryos are doing well, blah blah blah in our minds we want to think its "fool proof" but unfortunately, that is not the case...I think its half science and half faith (God or whoever your belief is in) there is a bigger picture and bigger plan which you will be able to see and understand once you are pregnant. (and it WILL HAPPEN)
IVF is 50/50...regardless, it is devistating when it doesnt work as it is for IUI and just even trying on your own.
The only thing that helped me get through and understand BFN's was that
A. the baby was not viable/healthy enough B. this precious soul was not ready to be born yet
C. its not over yet and when the time is right it will happen
It was my mantra...
Im sorry Cin, Im still praying for you and hopefully SanRoman will get you started ASAP...xoxoxoxo
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missfabulous
#mommyneedswine
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Re: Bad news...
I'm so sorry
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jellybean78
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LemonHead
Sour Girl
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Re: Bad news...
I am so so sorry. I just had a failed ivf cycle also and know how devastating it can be. ((Hugs))
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
Member since 8/11 6338 total posts
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Re: Bad news...
Posted by JulieLO
Im so sorry!!!! I know how bad you want this--im sure we all do...
There is nothing wrong with you...I think that when we hear IVF and that the embryos are doing well, blah blah blah in our minds we want to think its "fool proof" but unfortunately, that is not the case...I think its half science and half faith (God or whoever your belief is in) there is a bigger picture and bigger plan which you will be able to see and understand once you are pregnant. (and it WILL HAPPEN)
IVF is 50/50...regardless, it is devistating when it doesnt work as it is for IUI and just even trying on your own.
The only thing that helped me get through and understand BFN's was that
A. the baby was not viable/healthy enough B. this precious soul was not ready to be born yet
C. its not over yet and when the time is right it will happen
It was my mantra...
Im sorry Cin, Im still praying for you and hopefully SanRoman will get you started ASAP...xoxoxoxo
I am so sorry but I do agree with Julie. You are strong and will have a successful transfer.
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PhyllisNJoe
My Box Is Broken
Member since 6/11 9145 total posts
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Re: Bad news...
I'm sorry Cindy. I was thinking about you yesterday bc I knew you were gonna test.
Glad your husband is keeping positive for you
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Posted by TyReseGreen
Posted by JulieLO
Im so sorry!!!! I know how bad you want this--im sure we all do...
There is nothing wrong with you...I think that when we hear IVF and that the embryos are doing well, blah blah blah in our minds we want to think its "fool proof" but unfortunately, that is not the case...I think its half science and half faith (God or whoever your belief is in) there is a bigger picture and bigger plan which you will be able to see and understand once you are pregnant. (and it WILL HAPPEN)
IVF is 50/50...regardless, it is devistating when it doesnt work as it is for IUI and just even trying on your own.
The only thing that helped me get through and understand BFN's was that
A. the baby was not viable/healthy enough B. this precious soul was not ready to be born yet
C. its not over yet and when the time is right it will happen
It was my mantra...
Im sorry Cin, Im still praying for you and hopefully SanRoman will get you started ASAP...xoxoxoxo
I am so sorry but I do agree with Julie. You are strong and will have a successful transfer.
So Sorry!  I totally agree with JulieLo. This is so hard but stay strong and keep believing! Hope that you get your next step soon - that really does help.
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babyfever24
LIF Adult
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Re: Bad news...
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