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Backstabbing Co-workers

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BabyAvocado
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Backstabbing Co-workers

How do you deal?

Posted 2/1/07 1:03 PM
 
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sweetie

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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Learn from whatever happened & keep your distance

Posted 2/1/07 1:05 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Haven't had many encounters but I imagine I would always remember and watch my back in the future. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:06 PM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by sweetie

Learn from whatever happened & keep your distance



good advice!

Posted 2/1/07 1:06 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Document, document, document.

I had one of them once and she tried to get me thrown out of the company.

But I had saved every email, written down every phone conversation and listed every meeting we had.

She's gone. I'm still here. Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:06 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by sweetie

Learn from whatever happened & keep your distance



Great advice!

Posted 2/1/07 1:06 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

pour alot of laxative in their coffee when they're not looking.

eye for an eye... or, errr... pain in the a$$ for a pain in the a$$ Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:06 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by neenie

pour alot of laxative in their coffee when they're not looking.

eye for an eye... or, errr... pain in the a$$ for a pain in the a$$ Chat Icon Chat Icon



Does that eye for an eye = visine in coffee?Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:09 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by sweetie

Learn from whatever happened & keep your distance

Ditto. And try not to get involved.

Posted 2/1/07 1:09 PM
 

july06bride
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

don't tell them anything
keep your distance

Posted 2/1/07 1:10 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by neenie

pour alot of laxative in their coffee when they're not looking.

eye for an eye... or, errr... pain in the a$$ for a pain in the a$$ Chat Icon Chat Icon



Does that eye for an eye = visine in coffee?Chat Icon



i forget! Yes, visine should do the job well! Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:11 PM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Keep your distance - don't associate with them and keep communications to a minimum. I discovered this about one of my co-workers, a male associate, who also says some inappropriate things when he's alone with me. I've virtually cut off all communications with him, so he doens't have the opportunity to stab me in the back.

Posted 2/1/07 1:12 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

I've had this happen - not so much fun -

In my case, I called her new employer AND am pursuing a case with the district attorney. She should be served within the month. Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:13 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by neenie

pour alot of laxative in their coffee when they're not looking.

eye for an eye... or, errr... pain in the a$$ for a pain in the a$$ Chat Icon Chat Icon





Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:14 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Everyone is saying keep your distance, and I agree, that would be my instinct as well but what about the old "keep your enemies closer" bit?

Posted 2/1/07 1:15 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by BabyAvocado

Everyone is saying keep your distance, and I agree, that would be my instinct as well but what about the old "keep your enemies closer" bit?

Oh 100% Save every email, IM memo, post it you can .....just in caseChat Icon

Posted 2/1/07 1:16 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Posted by BabyAvocado

Everyone is saying keep your distance, and I agree, that would be my instinct as well but what about the old "keep your enemies closer" bit?



Do not discuss anything with he/she that is personal or could come back and bite you in the azz. Try to keep communication and anything else on a professional level.

Posted 2/1/07 1:17 PM
 

MsMitcia
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Don't communicate with them. If you need to keep a paper trail and remember KARMA is a b!tch...they will get theirs.

Posted 2/1/07 1:34 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: Backstabbing Co-workers

Always remeber what goes around comes around. And when the situation arises pay back's a bi tch.

Posted 2/1/07 1:49 PM
 
 

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