Am I crazy? I am upset...

So, I went for my FET this morning, and I drank all the water like I was supposed to, but then I had to wait for the Dr... and had to pee sooooooo badddddd that I almost wet the bed... so I told the nurse and she told me to go and just let out a little and turn it off.

OK>>> WHO CAN DO THAT B/C I FOUND OUT TODAY THAT I CAN'T... once I started... it just couldn't stop.

So then I had DH get me like 4 glasses of water and I downed them in like 5 mins.

So then after the transfer I had to pee SOOOOO BAD AGAIN... I know we are supposed to lay down for like 30 mins... and last time I tried not to pee the entire day b/c I thought I would push my babies out...

But today, I needed to go so bad that I had to get the nurse to let me go at like 25 mins...

My question is... am I crazy that I am so upset that I think I ruined this and pushed them out, and pee'd too early??

I have been upset all day... I am crazy right? I know its two different holes heheh TMI...

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your not alone on this feeling i felt that way to and im PG now. i swore i peed them out i had to go so bad so i ran fast and peed and then layed down again. im sure your fine!!

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I peed literally 5 minutes after my transfer, and I still got PG - it has absolutely no effect, so try to not worry

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your not crazy, I always worried too and my clinic makes you wait an hour.

Last time I was like you and had to let some out, but I was able to stop and was still nicely full as per my sono

anyway, I really dont think it make a difference, some places dont make you wait at all. And even where they make me wait an hour they will let you go in a bed pan (which I tried and just can not do), so its not really the peeing that they want you to avoid anyway.

dont stress about it

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I had the same exact problem- A matter of fact they were running behind schedule and I "let a little out" 4 times ! Finally I just totally emptied out-I couldnt stand it...then when I went in for transfer and they put the catheter in- The doc told me my bladder was TOO FULL and made me get off the table and empty out again !....After the transfer was done, I ended up needing to go again and never made it to the 1/2 hour mark and as you can tell, it didnt have a negative impact on my outcome ( I also must have a very small bladder!)- So no, your not crazy, and if they thought that it would have any bearing on anything- they would have been much stricter on you ! Hope your 2WW goes quickly

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Mine never said anything about having to have a full bladder.

I was explicity told after the transfer that "You can't pee, poop, sneeze, or laugh them out - so don't worry"

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thanks girls!!!!!! i feel so much better now!!!

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At my transfer, I had to let "a little" out as well. The big nurse with the sono wand thingy pressing on my belly didn't help the situation either!!

After it was over, DH was waiting for me; I flew right past him and went straight into the bathroom!!!

Re: Am I crazy? I am upset...

I peeded right after my transfer because my bladder was about to burst. Long story short, I am 22 weeks pregnant. Don't worry about it.