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after 2 years of TTCing.....

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Irishgrl13
Fingers Crossed...

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Colleen

after 2 years of TTCing.....

we finally got our BFP.....but unfortunately it looks like we are in the process of losing it Chat Icon Chat Icon I have to go back to the RE on Monday but they are not optimistic that my beta will continue to rise so now its really just a waiting game. I thought a BFN was bad, but never realized until now how much worse a BFP without good numbers can be....
I know that they ends justify the means in this case, but i'm not too sure how much longer I can take this process Chat Icon Chat Icon

Pity party over.....

Posted 7/5/13 4:47 PM
 
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2BirdsofaFeather
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after 2 years of TTCing.....

I am so sorry. I have been through this and can tell you that you need to take the time to be sad. If you need to chat fm me.

Posted 7/5/13 5:23 PM
 

Dulcinea
Weekend Warrior

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Dulcinea

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

Sorry to hear!

Maybe you can try to get your RE to make a request for the thrombofilial panel to see if there are any issues you should be aware of before the next cycle of IUI or IVF.

I too had 2 miscarriages in the last 1.5 years so I know how crushing this is...

Posted 7/5/13 5:32 PM
 

TyReseGreen
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Name:
Theresa

after 2 years of TTCing.....

I'm so sorry to hear.

What are your numbers that they are "claiming" are not good?

Posted 7/5/13 6:07 PM
 

babyfever24
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

I'm sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/5/13 6:09 PM
 

Lillies
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<3

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

I know exactly how you feel Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon so sorry you are going through this!

Posted 7/5/13 6:32 PM
 

JoanneAndJustin
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

So sorry. Chat Icon

Posted 7/5/13 7:31 PM
 

ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!

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Coleen

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

I'm so sorry. Hopefully you get some answers. Chat Icon

Posted 7/5/13 8:08 PM
 

gina409
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

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Posted 7/5/13 8:09 PM
 

Irishgrl13
Fingers Crossed...

Member since 6/09

1301 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

Beta is only 20.... I got my BFP on Tuesday with a FRER and another one Wednesday, digital Thurs was negative and FRER this morning was almost non existent so i'm thinking my numbers are already trending down... we'll see Monday I guess. They have me continuing progesterone until my next beta. If numbers are down on Monday, I just have to go in for a Rhogam shot the following day. I hate the waiting game...

Posted 7/5/13 8:49 PM
 

Lala08
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon unfortunately I know exactly how you feel. I thought getting my BFP was all I needed and when my beta was low it was a blow to the head and hearti. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/5/13 9:32 PM
 

ac13
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Member since 5/09

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A

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

i'm so sorry you are going through this - we went through the same thing last year. it sucks

Posted 7/6/13 11:36 AM
 

Irishgrl13
Fingers Crossed...

Member since 6/09

1301 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

sooo....as if the emotional rollercoaster wasn't enough....I started bleeding this am (TMI sorry) so I went into the MD thinking I was obviously miscarrying....turns out my progesterone is very low (3.2) but my beta almost doubled in less then 24 hours (now 35) So they doubled my progesterone suppositories and put me on low dose estrogen and are "cautiously optimistic". They did a sono just to check out my lining and said it looks like i'm PG based on the thickness...

so hopefully this damn bleeding will stop...that would make me much happier!!

And I go back to the MD Monday for another Beta... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for good numbers!!!

Thanks for all of your support ladies!!

Message edited 7/6/2013 1:52:29 PM.

Posted 7/6/13 1:51 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

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Posted 7/6/13 3:16 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

sending lots of prayers your way!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/13 12:45 PM
 

babydreams21
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after 2 years of TTCing.....

Lots of luck at your appointment . Hoping you have good news!

Posted 7/7/13 4:47 PM
 

Lala08
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

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Posted 7/7/13 5:27 PM
 

TimeforTwo2013
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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

I am so very sorry! To share the silver lining...at least this means you can get pregnant and if it can happen once it can certainly happen again! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/13 7:35 PM
 

MrsGoldie
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Posted 7/8/13 9:15 AM
 

LInMI
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Posted 7/8/13 10:09 AM
 

IveGotAFeeling
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of life!

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

Stick little one!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/8/13 11:53 AM
 

Irishgrl13
Fingers Crossed...

Member since 6/09

1301 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

So my latest beta is 78.....holy cow!!! DH and I are in shock. my progesterone is up to 4.6 so the bleeding has just about subsided (TMI Sorry) THANK GOD!!

Thank you for all your prayers ladies!! I go back to the MD on Wednesday for my next beta... They put me on bedrest for the rest of the week so I came home, went upstairs to change into comfy clothes and proceeded to fall down the stairs because i'm such a klutzChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I feel fine and haven't had any bleeding so hopefully this little one has a good grip!!

Thanks again!!

Posted 7/8/13 5:48 PM
 

TimeforTwo2013
LIF Infant

Member since 5/13

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after 2 years of TTCing.....

So excited for you! Praying you continue on this positive path!!!

Posted 7/8/13 6:52 PM
 

JoanneAndJustin
LIF Adult

Member since 2/09

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Joanne

Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

What a great update! Hope your little bean holds on tight, tight, tight!!

Posted 7/8/13 7:02 PM
 

gina409
TWINS!

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Re: after 2 years of TTCing.....

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Posted 7/9/13 12:08 AM
 
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