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Bran-loves-TomDad you finally did it!!!
 
 Member since 10/05 1714 total posts Name:Brandy
 | I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... think about pregnancy or AF this month but the closer I get the harder it is. I am due on either Fri. or Sat. for AF. It changes some times. I think because of all the thinking. Any way I wasn't going to think about it at all because we really didn't BD at the right time. I just can't seem to help myself. I keep looking for signs of both AF and Pregnancy but it's so hard because they can be so similar. My boobs are tender but not as much as usual so you know that gets you thinking and I have slight twinges down there but it's hard to tell if it's impending AF. I know you all go through this to but I just needed to get it out. I really tried so hard not to think about it I just can't seem to help my self the next few days are going to be so long and hard. Especially when I really don't think it could be any way. See I know it's not me it's DF he has never had children. He knows it's him but won't bring himself to get tested even though he wants to be a father SO BAD!!!! I think it's the male ego thing. Any way just needed to vent. Thanks | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 2:06 PM   | 
	
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DisneygirlDisney cruise bound!
 Member since 5/05 8126 total posts Name:D
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... I have my fingers crossed for you, I hope it's your month <<baby dust>>       | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 2:16 PM   | 
	
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mskimmy98My twins are one!!!
 
 Member since 5/05 2540 total posts Name:Kimberly
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry....          Sending you lots of baby dust! 
 
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			| Posted 11/16/05 2:19 PM   | 
	
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DianeHope is Contagious....catch it
 
 Member since 5/05 30683 total posts Name:D
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... tons of baby dust  | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 2:26 PM   | 
	
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MrsJI love my Katie Bug
 
 Member since 5/05 11357 total posts Name:Kathy
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... I'm sorry  You should talk with DH.  All he has to do is come in a cup - really, that's all there is to it! It's something men like to do anyway and its not painful at all. He can even do it at home and bring it in.       | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 2:40 PM   | 
	
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casey31Mommy of 3!
 Member since 5/05 2967 total posts Name:Mommy to two boys and a girl
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... I'm so sorry! I hope it happens this month! If not, I hope DH comes around and gets tested!!       | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 2:55 PM   | 
	
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Bran-loves-TomDad you finally did it!!!
 
 Member since 10/05 1714 total posts Name:Brandy
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... Thank you ladies. I try so hard not to think about it. Just can't help it. | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 3:05 PM   | 
	
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dooodlesWhen you wish upon a star
 
 Member since 5/05 11997 total posts Name:Because 2 people fell in love
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... Oh I can relate to the "I'm not going to even think about it and just see what happens" and then bam - you can't help but wonder.
 Here's wishing you lots of baby dust!!
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			| Posted 11/16/05 3:31 PM   | 
	
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jcbrownieLIF Adolescent
 Member since 8/05 879 total posts Name:jennifer
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			| Posted 11/16/05 3:38 PM   | 
	
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chrisLIF Adult
 Member since 10/05 1042 total posts Name:
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... baby dust and good luck  | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 4:08 PM   | 
	
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lvdolphinsMy Loves!
 
 Member since 5/05 46292 total posts Name:
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			| Posted 11/16/05 5:21 PM   | 
	
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kelswissLIF Infant
 
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			| Posted 11/16/05 5:30 PM   | 
	
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04brideI'm a big sister!!!
 
 Member since 5/05 6707 total posts Name:Noel
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			| Posted 11/16/05 5:46 PM   | 
	
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Jenziba?
 Member since 5/05 6265 total posts Name:Jennifer
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... Oh Brandy...I'm sending you tons and tons of ((((((((((((((((((((((baby dust)))))))))))))))))))))!!!!!
 
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			| Posted 11/16/05 6:08 PM   | 
	
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redstarDelay is not denial
 
 Member since 5/05 2220 total posts Name:Michelle
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... BABY DUST         | 
			| Posted 11/16/05 6:30 PM   | 
	
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rose825Best Friends
 
 Member since 6/05 10228 total posts Name:
 | Re: I have tried so hard not to......Long Sorry.... Posted by rose825
 I was really not hopeful and just like whatever.  Now I am getting hopeful again, and despite my better judgement, my monthly "I think I might be" is returning and it is scaring the CRAP put of me!!!!
 
 I dont want to be hopeful, so why cant I stop!!!!
 
 
 
 I posted this a few days ago.  I know EXACTLY how you feel.
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			| Posted 11/16/05 6:58 PM   | 
	
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