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2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Weird that I have to come to terms with the fact that our first cycle TTC for Baby #1 didn't work. 
Got pre-seed, some more FRERs and CB OP sticks in the mail on Saturday so gearing up for hopefully a better month this time around!
My BF's wedding is late July 2015 which would be near my early July due date if we had success this next cycle which is weird. If I'm late I could miss the wedding....thoughts on that too?
Meaning...would you agree with A) So what, you don't know how long it'll take, keep trying and you'll deal wtih the wedding-timing when you get closer, or B) It's one month more to wait, so wait. Better to be 8 months preg at the wedding and due in August...don't try this month.
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hmm
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
crashing on this one, but its your life so don't change plans for someone else's life events. Pregnant ladies can attend weddings and other events !! you might be uncomfortable but you can attend. Keep trying
Message edited 10/6/2014 7:14:49 PM.
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:14 PM |
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Posted by hmm
crashing on this one, but its your life so don't change plans for someone else's life events. Pregnant ladies can attend weddings and other events !! you might be uncomfortable but you can attend. Keep trying
agreed! 
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:23 PM |
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Posted by MemorialDayBride12
Posted by hmm
crashing on this one, but its your life so don't change plans for someone else's life events. Pregnant ladies can attend weddings and other events !! you might be uncomfortable but you can attend. Keep trying
agreed!
Thanks girls!
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:31 PM |
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LoveBug302
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
i woudnt wait. I was in a wedding a few months ago and waited to ttc until after the wedding, that way I could enjoy the bach party and wedding. Well turns out I never even got drunk at the wedding and here I am on month #3 of TTC. I am kicking myself for waiting. Also, if I were to get PG this month...my kids will have bdays only a few weeks apart which I'm not crazy about, but we are still TTC anyway. Seeing how long its taking so far there is nothing that will have me put off TTC for even 1 month. Good luck!!
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:46 PM |
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Posted by hmm
crashing on this one, but its your life so don't change plans for someone else's life events. Pregnant ladies can attend weddings and other events !! you might be uncomfortable but you can attend. Keep trying
I agree 100%
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:52 PM |
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Dani
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
agree with everyone! you never know when it'll actually happen...so keep trying!
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| Posted 10/6/14 7:57 PM |
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Posted by Dani
agree with everyone! you never know when it'll actually happen...so keep trying!
Sounds good. Thanks again girls!
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| Posted 10/6/14 10:43 PM |
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LotsaLuv
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2nd Cycle TTC for #1
I got pregnant with my 1st on month 3 of trying. We decided we wanted to try for #2 Feb 2013, Feb 2013 came, and we figured we would wait till Aug 2013 since it happened right away with our 1st. Now we are in Oct 2014, still no baby #2 and I had a miscarriage last November. You never know how long this process will take, do not put your life on hold for anyone.
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| Posted 10/6/14 10:57 PM |
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TyReseGreen
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
Posted by LotsaLuv
I got pregnant with my 1st on month 3 of trying. We decided we wanted to try for #2 Feb 2013, Feb 2013 came, and we figured we would wait till Aug 2013 since it happened right away with our 1st. Now we are in Oct 2014, still no baby #2 and I had a miscarriage last November. You never know how long this process will take, do not put your life on hold for anyone.
Totally agree!!! As a woman who is going through secondary infertility you never know how long it will take you. I had no issues with my first DD 17 years ago (wasn't planned but wasn't prevented). It took me 2 years to have my youngest DD with the help of IVF(numerous failed cycles). I am now in the process of a FET cycle. Originally our plan was to wait until January to do a cycle but decided due to my age(no spring chicken) let's try now since no telling if this cycle will work.
The point I am trying to make is if this is what you want don't try to plan your schedule around other peoples lives because there is no telling what blocks you may hit.
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| Posted 10/7/14 7:59 AM |
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backfor3
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Re: 2nd Cycle TTC for #1
I would definitely keep trying. I was pregnant when I was in a friends wedding and was totally fine. I was still able to enjoy myself, only difference was I couldn't drink.
If it were me, I wouldn't let that stand in my way. You seem so excited to ttc...I would defintley keep trying this month 
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| Posted 10/7/14 10:09 AM |
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