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BabyAvocado 
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 Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
How many male friends do you have and do you have more male friends than female friends?   What about your spouse - how many female friends does he have? (For the guys of LIF, reverse the genders and reply)
  
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			Posted 2/8/06 9:45 AM    | 
	
	
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Shorty 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
we share friends - we've known each other since high school...the friends are all male. 
  My only female friends are 1 girl I work with, 1 girl in Canada, and you guys! 
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			Posted 2/8/06 9:46 AM    | 
	
	
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Redhead 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i had more male friends than female
  DH has no female friends he used to have a few, but they kinda faded away when we started dating 
Message edited 2/8/2006 10:18:40 AM. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 9:59 AM    | 
	
	
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FeliciaDP 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Redhead
  at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i have more male friends than female
 
  
 
  Same exact thing here..
  DH has one really good female friend (we joked she was going to be "best woman" at our wedding) but otherwise, the majority of his buddies are male 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:03 AM    | 
	
	
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Summer05 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Redhead
  at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i have more male friends than female
  DH has no female friends he used to have a few, but they kinda faded away when we started dating 
 
  It is the same for us.
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:05 AM    | 
	
	
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BaroqueMama 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
I have mostly male friends, although my rate of female friendships has been going up. He has three really good female friends. However, he is close with my male friends and I am close with his female friends. Infact, I am probably closer with his female friends now than he is. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:16 AM    | 
	
	
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krwm 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
We have the same friends, all are mutual friends.  We have hung out with basically all of the same people since we met 8 years ago. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:21 AM    | 
	
	
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Gertyrae 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
I have two close female friends, one close male friend(who is DH's friend also) and DH is still friends with his group from HS (there's six of them all male) and he has one close female friend. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:28 AM    | 
	
	
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Stefanie 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
I have mostly female friends...of course we share friends so any of my friends are his friends and vice versa.  He doesn't have any female friends on his own though...just male. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:34 AM    | 
	
	
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Shanti 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
I have a lot of male friends but most of them are gay! DH had 1 very close girl friend but as we grew closer, she disappeared. He has mostly male friends. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:54 AM    | 
	
	
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MrsERod 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Redhead
  at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i had more male friends than female
  DH has no female friends he used to have a few, but they kinda faded away when we started dating 
 
 
  pretty much the same here. 
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:57 AM    | 
	
	
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baghag 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
i have one guy friend, the rest are female.
  Dh only has guy friends.  
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			Posted 2/8/06 11:05 AM    | 
	
	
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MelToddJulia 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Stefanie
  I have mostly female friends...of course we share friends so any of my friends are his friends and vice versa.  He doesn't have any female friends on his own though...just male. 
 
 
  Same here.   
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			Posted 2/8/06 11:23 AM    | 
	
	
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Boobobunny 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Redhead
  at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i had more male friends than female
  DH has no female friends he used to have a few, but they kinda faded away when we started dating 
 
 
 
  same here!!!
  One time a woman called the house for Ken...and I thought holy cow he has a female friend...it tunred out it was just someone from work calling to switch shifts.
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			Posted 2/8/06 12:10 PM    | 
	
	
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suvenR 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
DH doesn't have any female friends. 
  I have a male friend that I've been friends with since 7th grade.  He's also married.  I'm cool with his wife and DH is REALLY cool with my male friend. 
  But, in all honesty, me and my male friend NEVER EVER had ANY kind of romance or romantic experiences with each other EVER.  I know that if we had, DH would NOT want to associate with him... 
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			Posted 2/8/06 12:21 PM    | 
	
	
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lvdolphins 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
We have the same friends. Before I dated DH, I had more male friends then female friends. Now, we "hang out" with couples and some single friends as well.   
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			Posted 2/8/06 5:04 PM    | 
	
	
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FelAndJon 
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I have my 4 "girls".  They were bridesmaids and they are my buds.  2 of them I used to work with and 2 of them I have know my entire life. I had a guy friend from college that i kept in touch with for a long time.  We still speak a few times a year but since the wedding, it has really died off.  Not for any reason other than we both got busy. DH has his group of friends from HS.  Some guys, some girls.  They are all now married and all the DHs and DWs hang out.  I often forget who was "original"!  Outside of the "group", DH has 3 female friends, one from college, one from HS and another he used to work with.  The one from HS is married with kids and the other two are swingin singles.  The 2 single girls and I get along great.  One if them is always in a relationship (you know the type, every few months she is in a new relationship and he is "the one"!).  We often double date with her and her "man".  If nothing else, at least it is entertaining!  The other single girl and I go out all the time.  She is a blast to go to happy hour with     We (DH and I) also hang out with her a lot. DH and I don't act "couply" when we go out with our single frind so it isn't really an issue for us.
  The college friend is married with 3 kids so she and DH talk about married stuff    
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			Posted 2/8/06 5:17 PM    | 
	
	
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Redhead
  at this point in time, i have more female friends than male friends
  but during my 20's, i had more male friends than female
  DH has no female friends
  
 
  Ditto.
  DH is friends w/ my friends and his friends' wives, btu other than that, i think He thinks that girls have coodies... so he doesnt talk to them   
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:15 PM    | 
	
	
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nancygrace 
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 Re: Guy friends, girl friends, and your spouse 
Posted by Stefanie
  I have mostly female friends...of course we share friends so any of my friends are his friends and vice versa.  He doesn't have any female friends on his own though...just male. 
  SAME HERE
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			Posted 2/8/06 10:50 PM    | 
	
	
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