My parents want to do something this summer with my family and my brothers family and them, a group vacation. We have a condo in Florida which we do fairly regularly so no renting a place where we have to do the work.

We were thinking a cruise (mom doesn't love Islands so an AI does not appeal but a cruise she might) ideally she would like to do a Rocking Horse Ranch type of deal, I haven't been since I was a kid but hear good things about there and Woodlock Pines.

Any recommendations for a place like this in driving distance (max say 4 hours) that is really nice, somewhat upscale....?