Has anyone agreed to raise kids one way BEFORE they got married and then things changed? I'm Jewish and DH is Catholic, I had agreed to formal Catholic but still learn and celebrate my holidays, etc. I would support but not take lead role in Catholic education. But now DS is asking questions and interested in Judaism and I'm wanting to follow this. THings have changed since we got married- infertility struggles, kids, miscarriage, etc. and I've become a bit more religious/spiritual. Anyone experience this? If so, how did your spouse respond? Please FM if too personal. TIA!