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Is it just me?

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luckyinlove10
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Is it just me?

Or is everyone pregnant? Chat Icon

I keep telling myself - "enjoy this time for what it is - it will be your turn soon" but it's still just super frustrating. I feel like every time I go on FB there's another announcement.

I think it's extra hard bc of the MC - I keep thinking "ugh that SHOULD have been me"... anyway just wanted to vent to someone other than DH because he is SICK of hearing it!

I hope we get a LOT of BFPs this summer
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Posted 6/27/13 5:01 PM
 
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jessnbrian
Only God knows His plan for us

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Jessica

Is it just me?

OH MY GOD!!!! They're all either pregnant or just gave birth. I feel the same way, and DH feels the same way. It's driving me CRAZY!

Posted 6/27/13 5:05 PM
 

Hope2009
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Re: Is it just me?

Lord yes!!!! Heck I had to go to a baptism this past weekend at least 3 women were pregnant. I'm happy for them, but at the time I feel so miserable. Arrrrgghhhh!!!

Let's hope July will be a happy month for everyone. BFP for everyone. Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/13 7:22 PM
 

Booshka
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Booshka

Is it just me?

I feel like I am surrounded by pregnant ladies!! I know how you feel. Sending you all lots of baby dust.

Posted 6/27/13 7:56 PM
 

Lillies
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Re: Is it just me?

I blame Sandy! I have three friends pregnant with hurricane babies lol

Posted 6/27/13 8:26 PM
 

luckyinlove10
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Re: Is it just me?

Posted by Lillies

I blame Sandy! I have three friends pregnant with hurricane babies lol



Lol I have two!!! Of course so happy for everyone but it still sucks sometimes!

Posted 6/27/13 8:40 PM
 

MrsKS
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Kerri

Re: Is it just me?

ha yes they are all pregnant.

I however am not pregnant. haha. soon hopefully.

Posted 6/27/13 10:30 PM
 

BabyBearA
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Is it just me?

YEs. It starts to get to you!!! As happy as you are for people it's hard not to say to yourself, why not me?

Oh and I totally get the whole DH thing. My DH does not stress this at all and keeps saying it will happen - WHEN?!!?!?!?!?!!??!

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Posted 6/27/13 10:56 PM
 

jessnbrian
Only God knows His plan for us

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Jessica

Re: Is it just me?

Posted by BabyBearA

YEs. It starts to get to you!!! As happy as you are for people it's hard not to say to yourself, why not me?

Oh and I totally get the whole DH thing. My DH does not stress this at all and keeps saying it will happen - WHEN?!!?!?!?!?!!??!



OMG, DH keeps saying "just relax, let God do his thing"... like we're so religious... We don't even go to mass!

Posted 6/27/13 10:59 PM
 

JSDB
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Re: Is it just me?

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I feel the same way, and I agree its especially difficult after a mc (as I am in the same boat)

Posted 6/27/13 11:58 PM
 

luckyinlove10
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Re: Is it just me?

Posted by BabyBearA

YEs. It starts to get to you!!! As happy as you are for people it's hard not to say to yourself, why not me?

Oh and I totally get the whole DH thing. My DH does not stress this at all and keeps saying it will happen - WHEN?!!?!?!?!?!!??!



Exactly!

Posted 6/28/13 6:32 AM
 

luckyinlove10
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Re: Is it just me?

Posted by secretlyTTCagain

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I feel the same way, and I agree its especially difficult after a mc (as I am in the same boat)

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Hopefully this is OUR month!!!
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Posted 6/28/13 6:33 AM
 

AKD
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Re: Is it just me?

YUP. Just had this conversation with DH this morning. Everyone around is is either pregnant or about to give birth, and although I'm happy with them, I can't help but just wish that I was part of that group as well.

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Posted 6/28/13 9:30 AM
 

Ever-After
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C

Re: Is it just me?

I hear ya. Back when I was trying for #1, I had experienced some losses and was hurting a LOT over it. Then go figure, one of my students' mom's announces she's pregnant... with a man she's no longer with, even while on BC meant to prevent it (to which she got her tubes tied directly after the birth). Not to mention the crazy crackhead who had all 3 of her little ones taken away because she was a horrible psychotic mom, then got pregnant again soon after. I never understood why the people who should be pregnant have to struggle and the ones who shouldn't seem to have it so easy. I still don't understand that. It's especially difficult to deal with when you're so ready for it to be YOUR time. So I know where you're coming from.

Posted 6/28/13 11:21 AM
 

MikesBride
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Ilana

Re: Is it just me?

YES!!!

I have wanted to start TTC for over a year now and it just hasn't been a good time (we are starting in Sept finally!!) but in that year more people have gotten pregnant or gave birth than I can stand!! I feel like everywhere I turn someone else is pregnant and it makes me SO unhappy Chat Icon

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Posted 6/28/13 2:04 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: Is it just me?

Posted by MikesBride

YES!!!

I have wanted to start TTC for over a year now and it just hasn't been a good time (we are starting in Sept finally!!) but in that year more people have gotten pregnant or gave birth than I can stand!! I feel like everywhere I turn someone else is pregnant and it makes me SO unhappy Chat Icon

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Posted 6/28/13 2:20 PM
 

luckyinlove10
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Re: Is it just me?

Posted by MikesBride

YES!!!

I have wanted to start TTC for over a year now and it just hasn't been a good time (we are starting in Sept finally!!) but in that year more people have gotten pregnant or gave birth than I can stand!! I feel like everywhere I turn someone else is pregnant and it makes me SO unhappy Chat Icon

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Posted 6/28/13 2:27 PM
 

Lauren123
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Member since 10/10

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Lauren

Re: Is it just me?

I know exactly how you feel. Especially after a mc and people are announcing around the time that you would have announced..

I find it difficult some days to go on facebook. The other day my DH told me someone we were friends with is pregnant and due the same time I would have been with my first MC ( November).I got to upset and told him that if I do not mention it, please do not point it out to me... ignorance is bliss!!

Posted 6/28/13 2:44 PM
 

jessnbrian
Only God knows His plan for us

Member since 4/13

7238 total posts

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Jessica

Is it just me?

I get upstate for a wedding thus weekend - after getting BFN's all week (about GDP) and find out that one of our good friends is pregnant....due about the same time that I would have been if I didn't have the MC. Needless to say, I got DRUNK at the bar after I heard that!

Posted 6/29/13 1:05 AM
 

TimeforTwo2013
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Re: Is it just me?

YES! Everywhere I turn someone is posting on facebook that they're expecting or I see their big bellies. Of course I'm thrilled for them to be given that blessing and I keep positive it will happen for me too. However, it stings a little bit everytime I see or hear it...I'm with you on this one!

Posted 6/29/13 10:03 PM
 
 
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