Frustrated & Confused

Hi Ladies, I barely post but was hoping for some opinions from the best.

Since I've been off BCP in June my cycles have been 35 days except last month was 50 something.

I got my smiley on cycle day 13 this month which I thought was so early but took advantage! BD'ed cd 11, 13, 14, 15 and 17.

Today's CD 29 and all BFN's and no period, but since I usually get it at cd 35 I'm not surprised.

I'm so confused - Could I have PCOS? I temp but honestly it's kinda all over the place .. I tried adding a pic to my album but was having trouble with it.

Just want a baby, feel like it won't happen if I can't figure out when I ovulate!

Help needed =(




pics not working - hes the link to my fertilityfriend.com page

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/365dc9

Message edited 10/15/2012 6:18:26 PM.

Re: Frustrated & Confused

if u got the on cd 13 let's assume u ovulated cd 14

if today is cd29 it is not so strange to not have ur period yet

do u get a positive result every month with the opk?

what do ur temps say each month/

did u have PCOS before u went on the pill? do u have any symptoms of PCOS

Re: Frustrated & Confused

This is my first month using the smileys, I've used the Wondo's since the beginning of August, and they're usually pretty dark for about a week. I used the wondo and smiley this month and only got the smiley one day but the wando was again dark for about a week.. who knew this was so frustrating!

I've looked up PCOS symptoms and I'm not sure - never discussed with my dr but my temps are all over which I've read is a sign and before I went on the pill (as a teenager) sometimes I would skip a period or 2.

I'm wondering if I should see a dr and ask? I'm trying to be patient but have a terrible "I can't get pregnant" fear.


And thank you for answering.

Re: Frustrated & Confused

r u temping every day at the same time?

i am no expert temper bc i do not ovulate but i do not think they should be jumping all over the place

as for the wondo's..were they dark all week as in darker than the control line or did they eventually get darker

multiple positive opk's can be a sign as well as missed/non periods

i have a bad case but it can vary so much from person to person

if it is somethig u think umay have i would def talk with your doc and also when u think u r ovulating go for blood to confirm

cannot get more accurate than that

Re: Frustrated & Confused

Last couple months I tempted when I woke up, but this month was same time everyday.

Wondo's were just as dark the control line 2 days - but stayed pretty dark around that week.

Thank you for the advice, I'm driving myself crazy over thinking everything.

I'll look into the blood tests and try and give this one more month!

=)

Frustrated & Confused

your chart doesn't look like you ovulated within a normal time frame after the + on CD13 so I wouldn't expect your period to come on time. it def looks like you might either have PCOS or just an anovulatory cycle (which happens normally once in a while). although it also looks like you may have actually ovulated on CD17 since you never took another OPK at that time. either way i would expect a late AF or if you continue to get erratic temps you might want to go to the Dr for a progesterone check to see if you ovulated at all. if not then you might want to have some more testing done for PCOS.
good luck!!!

Re: Frustrated & Confused

you need to temp at the same time every day, otherwise the temps are going to be all over the place.

I would go by your OPKs for now

Re: Frustrated & Confused

Frustrated & Confused

Thank you all so much for all of the opinions! This past month I tempted at the same time every morning and my charts still a mess =/

One more month of temping and OPK's then I guess I'll call the Dr. to discuss the possiblilty of PCOS.. ughh