I will be 16 weeks tomorrow.

I have gained 6 pounds.

Except it looks like I gained 15 and it seems like those 6 pounds all went to my love handles, created back fat I never had before and made my thighs bloated and jiggly. I still don't LOOK pregnant- I barely have a belly. But now I am all loose and have extra fat in places I never did before. Because of the love handles and back fat, I really just look overweight. No one knows I'm pregnant unless I say I am and even then, I get looked at funny. Even my MIL comments about how odd I look because I'm barely showing and that "usually people only look pregnant from the front" Chat Icon I WISH I DID!!!

So I am really upset. I feel like I look so fat and disgusting and I'm curious as to why my belly isn't getting bigger to make all the OTHER areas that are getting just as big look smaller.

Any advice? Is there certain clothing I could wear to emphasize the bump and draw attention away from love handles, back fat and thighs? Is this just how I will carry or do you think in a few more weeks it will be different?