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NiKKi
LIF Infant
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This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
This really pissses me off! I've had 2 people in the last 2 weeks tell me they were pregnant. One is a single 19 year-old, who doesn't even have a boyfriend. Just a "friends with benefits" type guy in her life.
The other is a 21 year-old, who still lives with her parents, doesn't work, doesn't go to school, and her boyfriend, who is also 21, attempts to make a living playing at local bars in a bad, and lives with his parents.
It's annoys me because neither one are even close to being ready for a kid yet.
However, while I was talking to them, the 19 year old was shocked because she said the last time she BD'd was the same day her period ended.
The other one, also confused, because she BD'd 2 days after AF.
Soo, maybe if anyone is having trouble, try BDing sooner?? IdK though, i'm just annoyed with those young girls.
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Posted 1/3/12 12:46 PM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
its possible that both of them experienced bleeding that wasnt their AF. Have either gone to the Dr to get a sono or anything?
As far as their age/situations. Its definitely not ideal, but as long as they take care of themselves during the pregnancy and take care of their kid... it doesnt really bother me.
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| Posted 1/3/12 1:04 PM |
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maymama
my little loves
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
there is some truth. I have noticed that SO many women on here are so concerned with BD on the day of and days following O. That is good, but BD the days leading up to O are just as important!
Sperm can live in ideal environment for 5 days!!!
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| Posted 1/3/12 1:14 PM |
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NiKKi
LIF Infant
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
Posted by AngnShaun
its possible that both of them experienced bleeding that wasnt their AF. Have either gone to the Dr to get a sono or anything?
As far as their age/situations. Its definitely not ideal, but as long as they take care of themselves during the pregnancy and take care of their kid... it doesnt really bother me.
One of them went to the Dr and was told it's possible to O as early as CD6!!
The other, well, she's done nothing but POAS about 9 times-literally.
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| Posted 1/3/12 1:26 PM |
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LiveItUp
Love my babies!
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
I think that as younger women their cycles might not have regulated yet (I know when I was their ages my cycles were wacky) so maybe they O'd early in their cycles and maybe the swimmers from their young BFs were strong enough to last until the girls O'd.
It's so annoying though how we all keep hearing about all these young girls getting pregnant without even trying. I think age plays a big factor in fertility.
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| Posted 1/3/12 4:18 PM |
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butterfly20
Party of 5 - 2015
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
some people have a shorter cycle...... I think like 21 days or something, so that they could get pg shortly after af
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| Posted 1/3/12 9:38 PM |
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jennielee15
Let's try this again....
Member since 7/11 2269 total posts
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
I hope there is some truth to this! We  way too early this cycle..... so maybe that'll do the trick! haha!
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| Posted 1/4/12 9:17 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
Both times i got pregnant I one or two days BEFORE i ovulated. Not the day of or after.
Good luck ladies
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| Posted 1/4/12 2:26 PM |
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TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!
Member since 5/10 2440 total posts
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Re: This will probably annoy some of you, but it might be helpful
When I was pregnant with my DS, they told me that I must have ovulated early because the sonogram was giving a different due date than my LMP
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| Posted 1/4/12 7:41 PM |
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