UGh probably out again...missing fertile time

I’m pretty much already figuring I’m OUT this month because I’m currently in my fertile window (according to FF) and we haven’t even BD all week! I’m so frustrated!! Dh was on vacation this week so it would have been perfect; but he’s been feeling sick/tired so we haven’t done anything. We even argued about it the other night because I told him if we want kids they’re not just going to come on their own. And he said like always “they’ll come when they come” (meaning he doesn’t want to go crazy trying and timing or BD). But he doesn’t realize if we DON’T BD when I’m ovulating; any other time is just for fun and not for the purpose of baby making!

Sorry; just needed to vent!

And it doesn’t help that I’ve been nauseous the last two days; its been hard to eat anything or even get in the mood to BD myself! This just came out of no where!!

Re: UGh probably out again...missing fertile time

I totally understand your frustration, My dh was the same way when we started to conceive. I told him there were certain days we had to He got annoyed and sometimes frustrated with me. But he eventually gave in and understood the fertility window. I am now on baby number two. It will happen for you too

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It's frustrating! I know the last thing you want is to have to wait another month but maybe next month you will both be feeling better and can enjoy the intamacy.

Good Luck!

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Posted by Samira0407

I’m pretty much already figuring I’m OUT this month because I’m currently in my fertile window (according to FF) and we haven’t even BD all week! I’m so frustrated!! Dh was on vacation this week so it would have been perfect; but he’s been feeling sick/tired so we haven’t done anything. We even argued about it the other night because I told him if we want kids they’re not just going to come on their own. And he said like always “they’ll come when they come” (meaning he doesn’t want to go crazy trying and timing or BD). But he doesn’t realize if we DON’T BD when I’m ovulating; any other time is just for fun and not for the purpose of baby making!

Sorry; just needed to vent!

And it doesn’t help that I’ve been nauseous the last two days; its been hard to eat anything or even get in the mood to BD myself! This just came out of no where!!

I feel like I have another name on LIF and only post with while I'm sleeping!! HAHA!! You are exactly like me! Same cycle and everything! VERY FUNNY!

Anyhow, DH is also on vacation this week but we have not at all since Christmas eve. We had a long talk last night abotu how he feels fat and ugly so he cannot get intimate. I called him a girl!!! haha! Anyhow, we do have a lot of things we need to get in order I just really don't want to wait anymore! We will try his method of just "winging" it and I will try not to track everythign so closely but I know it will be hard!

Good Luck!

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I know how you feel! I've been going through something similar with my DH. He normally jumps at the chance to but he doesn't like feeling like we HAVE to. I get it, it's takes all the romance out. But I waited until a neutral time (not right after being turned down for ) to calmly explain how I feel a lot of pressure each month since my fertile window is only so long, and since then he's been more willing to "cooperate" for lack of a better word . Sexy lingerie helped too

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Posted by LiveItUp

but he doesn't like feeling like we HAVE to. I get it, it's takes all the romance out. But I waited until a neutral time (not right after being turned down for ) to calmly explain how I feel a lot of pressure each month since my fertile window is only so long

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I totally understand what you are goung through. DH was like that too at first..but then he had a birthday and realized he was pushing 40 soon and would like to have kids soon. He NOW understands how the woman body works and knows that when the window is open gotta get to baby making otherwise it will never happen! Right now he's like what ever we gotta do we'll do!!!!

I'm sure your DH will come around! Maybe he was feeling like that because he has been under the weather!!

Best of luck to you!!!!! I hope you get a BFP soon!!!!!

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uggh!! sorry you missed out on some babymaking days....we did too this month since DH was away. I feel so frustrated with every start of a new cycle!!

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You're still in the window, so there may be a chance I feel your frustration as well. I had this cycle all planned out and of course it never went as planned (does it ever?). I even ordered fertilaid for DH. He took it for maybe 3 days because I was nagging him. Once I stopped, so did he. And forget about being tired!! I am always tired, so I tell DH if I can suck it up, so can he.
As you can tell we're both romantics