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Have you ever watched the Great Sperm Race documentary on youtube? Its a 6 part video and it's a little long, but its pretty interesting. It explains why it's not always so easy. It may be interesting for him to watch! I just watched it the other night!

The Great Sperm Race

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im glad you spoke with him and worked it out. DH thinks its going to be easy to get pregnant and doesnt realize what is involved and how slim the chances are each month. He kept telling friends we would get pregnant on our honeymoon...i had to show him some facts and statistics for him to realize its not that simple.

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Glad you guys talked about it

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Posted by MRsFaTThead


part of me felt i had the right to yell.

hes the one that wanted to start ttc
im the one going to doc getting checked all the time. getting a d&c for a polyp. taking my temp every moring. taking vitamins. taking guaifensein to help his swimmers. i just feel like im doing everything.

im just glad we talked and he really wants to take an interest in everything.

i did ask why he fell asleep. he didnt have an answer. he just kept saying he was sorry that he let US down.

I'll try not to yell if it ever happens again



I agree with you. It sounds like you are doing tons to be ready. At some point, everyone reaches a boiling point when frustrated. At least you talked it over

Message edited 10/5/2011 6:26:09 PM.

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I think we have the same DH.

It suck.s.

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Im glad everything is ok now!

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I'm so sorry Roz. H and I had fights like this all the time. I didnt think he was making TTC a priority the way I was. I was driving myself crazy and I know you are too. SO sorry you are dealing with this

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first..

second..it is so frustrating when we feel ike we r doing this all alone..i ahve been there..sometimes i swear it is just a guy thing..

as for yelling at him..i think we yell bc we love the person..yes that is what i said..we yell bc we r so frustrated bc the love that we share for each other which is so much is not turing into a child like we planned

if we know that this si something we would be amazing at,why does it not happen..i wish ih ad that answer

i think it is great that he wants to see videos and that you guys talked

i cannot stress that enough..communication is so important..it cannot be one sided..each one needs to know how and why the other is feeling that way

good luck to you guys and i am always here if you want to talk

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thanks for the kind words val and gina



i sent him a text last night saying this


wake me up when he got home baby wink wink

guess he didnt get the message
he got home at 12am and passed out
i really didnt feel like making a move

next time ill text him

when you get home wake up your wife so you can bang the shhhiiit out of her on her last day of her fertile window.

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First I'm so sorry I can only imagine how frustrating that is.

Second when we started TTC I printed that post that's pinned at the top about everything you want to know about TTC and gave it to DH I asked him to read it to prepare because I had done the same. I think it gave him a pretty good understanding of everything.