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Luvbug
LIF Infant
Member since 3/11 184 total posts
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LB
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need some hugs
Well today I am 14DPO and this morning I tested and it was a BFN. Also, my temps are starting to drop. I cried the whole morning. AF didn't come yet but I know she will be here soon… I had a dream last night that she came and that usually is a sign that she is coming today (i know that sounds weird)
I just don’t understand what we are doing wrong. I am so beyond frustrated at this point. We have been on this journey for 15 months now and had 1 miscarriage along the way. I am so beyond sad at this point. Every time I get a BFN I can’t help but to think where I would be in my pregnancy if I didn’t have a miscarriage.
We have been to an RE and since they know I can get pregnant they won't start any treatment until 1 year since my miscarriage. They are just helping us understand my cycles and when I am ovulating. I am just so sad because I really thought this was our month and I am at the point of just giving up 
Message edited 7/29/2011 11:00:25 AM.
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july4mrsO
Happy boy!
Member since 5/10 2867 total posts
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Jess
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Re: need some hugs
I'm so sorry for your loss and all you're going through 
You're not out just yet But if this isn't the month of your BFP maybe you should consider going to a different RE who would be more aggressive with your treatment? 
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:05 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:05 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: need some hugs
I would see a different RE!!
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:11 AM |
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Re: need some hugs
Ita with penny. I sent you fm.
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:31 AM |
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Pomegranate5
LIF Adult
Member since 2/11 4798 total posts
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Pomegranate5
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Re: need some hugs
I'm so sorry. I think it's really ridiculous that you have to wait a whole year after the m/c. I agree that after 15 months an RE is the way to go.
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:31 AM |
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addingonemore
My family is complete <3
Member since 11/10 2037 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
Posted by PennyCat
I would see a different RE!!
ITA!
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:47 AM |
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Hoping4Baby11
Live life to the fullest!,
Member since 1/11 2140 total posts
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Jenn
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 12:14 PM |
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TNT1005
LIF Adult
Member since 3/10 1110 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 12:54 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 1:11 PM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
Member since 6/10 6900 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
Posted by PennyCat
I would see a different RE!!
ITA!
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| Posted 7/29/11 1:42 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult
Member since 1/11 7391 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 3:27 PM |
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Alexandra17
Keep It Positive
Member since 4/09 6262 total posts
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Alexandra (ali)
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Re: need some hugs
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| Posted 7/29/11 4:41 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
DEF SEE A NEW RE!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 7/29/11 5:29 PM |
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Megs4
LIF Adult
Member since 11/08 1619 total posts
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Megan
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Re: need some hugs
I can certainly understand your sadness and disappointment. I agree with the others though - you need a doctor who you feel supports you.
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| Posted 7/29/11 8:41 PM |
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MammaPajama
aka HelenZ :)
Member since 3/11 1010 total posts
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Re: need some hugs
I'm so sorry....you can't help but compare where you would be had you not miscarried....I do the same thing, I have friends who had due dates around mine and now I see their healthy babies and think of how my life would have changed, hang in there!!
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| Posted 7/29/11 11:22 PM |
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