beyond upset... should i give it up?????? update

this is a serious tirade.

first cycle back since my mc. stimmed really high doses and go into dr b today. i have one mature follie and one at 15 so he said do ganirelex and keep stimming and maybe the second one will catch up and we will do iuis mon and tues...but that he will call with blood results incase i surged on my own..if so we have to do iui tomorrow which is saturday.

so i call dh and he rushed the ganirelex to my job( which i was late for bc of dr b appt)

so i tell dh most likely mon and tues but maybe tomorrow so dont ahem ejaculate today.

fine.

so i do the shot and about 2 hours later i am in the toilet at work barfing. okay great.
Update. So I didn't need to castrate my dh. Lucky man that spermies were good and did iui this morning. Don't have much hope bc of only one mature follie but at least we did it ty for bearing with me!!!!

so now its 6pm and i work till 8 . i work tomorrow at 9 am and i NEED to know whats going on bc i have clients booked all day.


at 6 58 dr b emails me and says yes i surged so i have to do trigger shot tonight and do iui tomorrow morning.

have to call boss and reschedule all the appts which they were upset about .

i get home around 830. do the trigger shot.

and then my lovely husband confesses that he um played with himself today!

reallllllllllllly????? really.

so now i have an email out to dr b that hubby screwed up and should we even bother with iui tomorrow since his boys dont have time to build up.


so. one egg if i am lucky mayyyyybe two.
barfing. missing work. and dh doesnt listen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tryingggg not to kill him. tell me to calm down or something! gaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!!!!!!!!

Message edited 6/18/2011 12:24:46 PM.

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

I think you should be okay Thats a lot of BS for one day, I am sorry Hopefully the count will be great tomorrow. Look at it this way, usually you do back to back IUI's and so he does do it 2x in a row. You guys aren't doing an IUI on sunday so lets pretend this is the Second IUI with his stuff

I am sure things will work out! Good Luck tomorrow!!!

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

does your DH have a count issue?? if not you should be fine. even if he does its probably still worth having the IUI. hope you feel better!!!!!!!

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

def still go! Like flowerwife said, unless he has a count issue, its fine. We 2 days before our IUI and DH had a sever count/morph issue. His numbers were perfect. I think you're good. You already rescheduled your clients for the day so you have the time... good luck!!!!

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

Oh man, I'd be !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But, with that said, I think its worth going ahead with the IUI like pps mentioned as long as count hasn't been an issue in the past.

Think of it like B2B IUIs or "Deanna's Plan / SMEP" - BDing EOD and then the day of and the next couple of days.

Good luck, I really hope this it is for you!!

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

Oh man I'd be pizzed too! Men.don't.listen! If he doesn't have mf issues you should be ok. Maybe the counts won't be as high but all it takes one. They look at it before the iui so they will know if it's good.

Good luck!

Re: beyond upset... should i give it up??????

i'd be so pizzed at him too!!! but dont give it up!!!!!