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Puppy-Love
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Very frusturated and down
I am so down in the dumps, been this way since Feb and I just cannot shake it. I know "IT" will happen eventually but I just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel and cannot shake this negative feeling all the bad events this year.
-7 months TTC
-1 miscarriage (2 months lost bc of it)
-1 bad infection and 1 bad fallopian tube (hydsosalpinx) and prob need surgery - so cannot TTC right now and gonna lose another 3 months. UGHHH
I have a 2nd opinion scheduled but I am gonna prob have the surgery and then face TTC with 1 fallopian tube and maybe looking at a summer 2012 baby - if I am lucky. I just cannot believe this is taking so long and that I have these obstacles. I dont know how to make myself feel better. This is all I think about and I find myself getting upset all the time. Is anyone else constantly having a pity party and how do I change my attitude? I am always busy doing things, work 2 jobs, go on vacations, etc...but I just have this lingering cloud over my head. 
Message edited 6/6/2011 2:17:19 PM.
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: Very frusturated and down
 i know the feeling... ive debated over writing a similar post myself... i feel like im going uphill, swiming against the current... etc...
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| Posted 6/6/11 2:43 PM |
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Hoping4Baby11
Live life to the fullest!,
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Jenn
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Re: Very frusturated and down
I'm so sorry you are going through this!!!!!
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| Posted 6/6/11 3:03 PM |
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MamaPapaBear
my little girl
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my whole world
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Re: Very frusturated and down
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| Posted 6/6/11 3:19 PM |
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caps612
In love with my little guys!!
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Re: Very frusturated and down
I'm so sorry you have to deal with all that.
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| Posted 6/6/11 3:19 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: Very frusturated and down
it's rough and it's frustrating..but just keep remembering the outcome..what we all do this for and how great the payoff is
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| Posted 6/6/11 10:48 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: Very frusturated and down
I am so sorry. I wish I could say something to make you feel better All I can say is that I hope and pray you get your little miracle baby soon. I know it seems like an eternity and that time moves so slowly but you have to keep thinking about whats going to come out of this.
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| Posted 6/6/11 10:53 PM |
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MrsT809
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Re: Very frusturated and down
Not sure I have much advice, just support. I tend to go in cycles with my pity parties. Sometimes I'm hopeful and confident and others times, like you, I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves that no matter how long it takes it will be worth it. Also, I try to remind myself that I'm grateful for the time I'm having with DH in the meantime b/c once I get a BFP (assuming I do) things will really change.
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| Posted 6/7/11 7:58 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3
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Re: Very frusturated and down
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| Posted 6/7/11 9:44 PM |
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addingonemore
My family is complete <3
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Re: Very frusturated and down
I am sorry you are feeling this way TTC consumes our lives and sometime we have to step back and look at the big picture. TTC is only a small part of life. Try and focus on and enjoy the other things in your life. We all have times like this, to some extent. Just remember that one day all you have gone through will be so worth it. Feel better 
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