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BabyTime821
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Chemical Pregnancy?

So it turns out my BFP turned into a Chemical Pregnancy Chat Icon How quickly life turns on you, but I'm not giving up. Went to OB last Friday and my numbers were really good, she had me go back on Monday and they significantly dropped, so she actually gave me a heads up that I would start bleeding within the next 24 hours. Not that there is any way to prepare for this, but I guess it was easier to expect it than for it to just happen.

Anyway, I was just wondering for those who have been through this how long it took for the bleeding to stop. I'm ready for this to be over already

Posted 4/28/11 10:14 AM
 
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cateyemm
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Posted 4/28/11 10:16 AM
 

MySunshine
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Posted 4/28/11 10:20 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon so sorry... neither of my losses were chemicals so I have no advice

Posted 4/28/11 10:20 AM
 

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Posted 4/28/11 10:22 AM
 

01ellie
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Posted 4/28/11 10:29 AM
 

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Posted 4/28/11 10:36 AM
 

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Posted 4/28/11 10:38 AM
 

Pomegranate5
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

I'm sorry. I went through that back in March. For me, the bleeding was like a regular period. The cramping might have been a little more intense, but nothing significant. If I hadn't taken an early HPT I would have just assumed I had gotten AF.

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Posted 4/28/11 10:38 AM
 

FlowerWife
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depending on how high your levels were chemicals are usually just like a regular AF. i had two and the first was just like regular AF, the second was maybe a day or two longer cause i didnt actually miscarry until over 5w.
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Posted 4/28/11 10:42 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Posted 4/28/11 12:11 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
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no advice

sorry

Posted 4/28/11 12:13 PM
 

Shelleybean11
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I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/11 1:17 PM
 

LoLaBlue
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Posted 4/28/11 1:18 PM
 

BabyTime821
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

Thanks for all of the support ladies. Although it all happened so quickly, it still really hurts. My mom and DH have been really supportive, but all in all in just s*cks. Lately I've been thinking about everything I did last week physically that maybe I shouldn't have so early on.

Posted 4/28/11 4:05 PM
 

Pomegranate5
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

Posted by BabyTime821

Thanks for all of the support ladies. Although it all happened so quickly, it still really hurts. My mom and DH have been really supportive, but all in all in just s*cks. Lately I've been thinking about everything I did last week physically that maybe I shouldn't have so early on.



Ok, seriously, stop thinking like that! Chat Icon You couldn't possible have done ANYTHING that caused this. It happens. It was so early, and unfortunately it is not uncommon, even if it still hurts like a b**** just the same.

When I started letting myself think that way I reminded myself that there are junkie prostitutes who manage to get and stay pregnant. So my bike ride, or extra cup of coffee, or having sex with DH, or WHATEVER did not make me miscarry.

ETA - Not only did you not do ANYTHING to bring this on, but it doesn't mean that because it happened once that it will happen again. Chat Icon I'm sure you will go on to have a happy, successful pregnancy very soon!

Message edited 4/28/2011 4:14:27 PM.

Posted 4/28/11 4:11 PM
 

MrsT809
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Posted 4/28/11 5:41 PM
 

MrsG72907
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im so sorry for your loss Chat Icon

I had a chemical in December. I was just 5 weeks when i started bleeding. Initially, the cramping and bleeding was worse (for about 1/2 the day) and then it was a normal AF.

Posted 4/28/11 5:50 PM
 

Comeonnumbertwo
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I had a chemical in March. The bleeding was really only for 1-2 days for me, but I got very sick for 1 day (chills, weak, vomiting, etc.), however that does NOT seem to be the norm.

Please don't think it's anything you did. I thought the exact same thing. There's nothing you could have/should have done, it just s*cks with a capital S.

Feel free to FM me for support or anything you might have questions about/want to talk about.

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Posted 4/28/11 7:50 PM
 

Teach723
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

I had 3 days of spotting followed by 6 days of bleeding then 1 more of spotting. So sorry you're going through this. It's such an emotional rollercoaster. Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/11 8:36 PM
 

PennyCat
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon When I had a chemical it was just like a normal AF.

However..... I wasn't pregnant for more than like a day. My beta was 15 and I started spotting on 12dpo.

Posted 4/28/11 8:52 PM
 

ElizaRags35
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Posted 4/28/11 9:13 PM
 

BabyTime821
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

U girls are truly an amazing support. Deep down I know it was not meant to be this time around. But it's hard not to think about everything I did last week, in addition to exercise I happened to fall really bad in the shower before I got my BFP plus we had a fire drill at work and we were forced to wAlk down 36 flights of stairs. Can't help but wonder what if. But thank you to all of u for ur thoughts. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/11 9:48 PM
 

gina409
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i am so sorry for your loss

i bled for almost 10 days and had cramping for most of it some days worse than others

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Posted 4/28/11 10:12 PM
 

WenRC
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Re: Chemical Pregnancy?

I believe I had one once, and I bled heavier than usual and was in extreme pain but it lasted as long as a normal period (5 to 7 days)

Posted 4/28/11 11:11 PM
 
 

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