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BigSmooch
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Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Did anyone's hubby complain about pre-seed? Mine said he didn't like it :( He said it was too cold? I didn't notice it being cold and to me it felt fine, not even noticeable. He said it felt cold on him whether I used it internally or we used it together externally. The times I applied it internally I didn't tell him and I waited awhile figuring my body temperature would warm it up but as soon as we started he felt it! Instead of making it easier to  it ended up making it harder for him. He said it doesn't feel like "me"?
I don't know if we're going to use it next try but the frequent sex hurts me without using any lube and I know saliva isn't good.
I'm just wondering if my husband is weird? :(
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Posted 4/11/11 5:11 PM  |
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Daisy25
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
My DH felt the same way!! He hates it. I have to "sneak" it in before we ...By then, he's already in the mood so he won't stop! 
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| Posted 4/11/11 5:46 PM |
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TNT1005
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
My DH isnt a fan of it either. We try to use it as little as we can but enough tp do the trick
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| Posted 4/11/11 6:04 PM |
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butterflygal
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Actually mine loves it! We both do. It is a bit messy though
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| Posted 4/11/11 6:16 PM |
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Teach723
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Mine didn't seem to mind it, but we didn't use a lot of it. DH takes it whatever way he can get it
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| Posted 4/11/11 6:27 PM |
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memi7206
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
DH hates it, but he has no choice LOL. I need it since I dont get a lot of EWCM on my own and bc I generally need lube for sex. He didnt mention it being cold, but said it felt like what he imagined having sex with a slip and slide would feel like,
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| Posted 4/11/11 6:33 PM |
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prunepie
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jennifer
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
we use like only a fourth of what is needed..that way its not tooooo slippery kwim?
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| Posted 4/11/11 6:57 PM |
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BigSmooch
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Well it looks like he isn't the only one. I wasn't sure if he was being picky.
Sex/our sex drives has never been a problem before but now that we are ttc after a miscarriage it isn't the same.
I know that we both feel stress to get pregnant again so we try to do it on the important days but that just turns it into schedule. On top of that I'm using the opk as per my OB so I know for sure when I'm fertile which really takes the spontaneity out of it. It's not easy for him to perform on demand and I am understanding because there are so many times that I don't want to do it either and I don't have the pressure to finish like he does. But when he started complaining about the lube I wanted to strangle him I thought it would make things easier not harder!
I really took for granted how hard trying was since we got pregnant without trying the first time.
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| Posted 4/11/11 7:01 PM |
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
How much did you use. I think they say to use 3, but I do 2. 1 might even do the trick, but DH doesn't complain about it.
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| Posted 4/11/11 7:04 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
My DH loved it. I did as well.
BUT we also NEVER used the full amount. That was just INSANE!! We used like a dime size or so.. maybe a nickel??
I did get a BFP one of the times I used it though.
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| Posted 4/11/11 7:44 PM |
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gina409
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by MrsKS
My DH loved it. I did as well.
BUT we also NEVER used the full amount. That was just INSANE!! We used like a dime size or so.. maybe a nickel??
same here
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| Posted 4/11/11 8:54 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
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| Posted 4/11/11 9:19 PM |
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Teach723
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
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| Posted 4/11/11 10:00 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by Teach723
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
I thought I was the only one with this problem.
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| Posted 4/11/11 10:08 PM |
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BigSmooch
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by bringonthebaby
How much did you use. I think they say to use 3, but I do 2. 1 might even do the trick, but DH doesn't complain about it.
I knew from the girls here to only use a small amount so I put such a tiny bit in the applicator! I thought he wouldn't even notice!
For me it was more comfortable. Usually it hurts a little until we get things going. He said I felt different and I wasn't warm, that it made me feel cold?
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| Posted 4/12/11 10:53 AM |
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MrsKS
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by Teach723
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
I thought I was the only one with this problem.
really?
I never heard of this happening. How long are you guys going at it? Maybe that's why? IDK. We never had this problem.
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bettybcafe
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by Teach723
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
I thought I was the only one with this problem.
really?
I never heard of this happening. How long are you guys going at it? Maybe that's why? IDK. We never had this problem.
Yea, its probably the duration. DH can go for a while...(and I dont mean that in a bragging way)
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| Posted 4/12/11 5:48 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by Teach723
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
I thought I was the only one with this problem.
really?
I never heard of this happening. How long are you guys going at it? Maybe that's why? IDK. We never had this problem.
Yea, its probably the duration. DH can go for a while...(and I dont mean that in a bragging way)
we were somewhat on a mission!! get in and get out!! hahaha!!
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| Posted 4/12/11 10:43 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by bettybcafe
Posted by Teach723
Posted by bettybcafe
Mine never complained about it but I personally dont like it as much as reg. lube. I feel we have to be constantly applying it, like it dries up too fast. I think I might be the only one with that complaint though
I noticed that too!
I thought I was the only one with this problem.
really?
I never heard of this happening. How long are you guys going at it? Maybe that's why? IDK. We never had this problem.
Yea, its probably the duration. DH can go for a while...(and I dont mean that in a bragging way)
we were somewhat on a mission!! get in and get out!! hahaha!!
 Exactly!
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Pomegranate5
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
DH just hates how slippery it is. I can only use a tiny, tiny bit. I use it as lube, not so much a fertility aid.
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:15 AM |
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MrsPenthouse
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
DH doesn't know I'm using it. I used it this last week a couple of times and he was REALLY turned on seeing how EXTRA excited I was....I didn't want to ruin that for him 
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| Posted 4/13/11 12:04 PM |
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memi7206
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by MrsPenthouse
DH doesn't know I'm using it. I used it this last week a couple of times and he was REALLY turned on seeing how EXTRA excited I was....I didn't want to ruin that for him
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| Posted 4/13/11 12:08 PM |
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MrsFrizzle
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Re: Pre-Seed and Your Hubby
Posted by MrsPenthouse
DH doesn't know I'm using it. I used it this last week a couple of times and he was REALLY turned on seeing how EXTRA excited I was....I didn't want to ruin that for him
Too funny!!
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| Posted 4/13/11 12:55 PM |
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