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Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

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AliB
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Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

So my beta is on Tuesday and my transfer was this past Monday. I have had menstrual cramps since the day before the transfer and I am losing hope. I definitely know these are period cramps!! I don't understand how everything went so perfectly, now cramps?? I just feel so helpless.

Posted 4/1/11 4:33 PM
 
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alexadt
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Don't give up hope. I know thats super hard, but try not to. I had really bad cramps about 5dp5dt, and got my bfp on 7dp5dt. Wait for your beta and think positive Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/11 4:40 PM
 

curiousO
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

cramps do not always mean AF is coming. A lot of ppl cramp during early pregnancy. Keep the hopes up! Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/11 4:41 PM
 

classc1
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Cramping is GOOD!!! Soooo many ladies have thought Af was coming onlyto get a BFP. I had lots of cramping leading up to my BFP post transfer. FX and keep the faith!!

Posted 4/1/11 4:48 PM
 

AliB
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alison

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

But did the cramps last days and feel exactly the same as af cramps?

Posted 4/1/11 4:57 PM
 

JavaJunkie
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Lois

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

When I was pg w ds I could've sworn af was coming any second then bam bfp!

Posted 4/1/11 5:48 PM
 

ns1011
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Nic

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Posted by AliB

But did the cramps last days and feel exactly the same as af cramps?



I had an IUI but YES!!!!! It was EXACTLY the way I always felt the days leading up to AF. If I had not been temping I would never had bothered to test. And even tho my temp never dropped like it usually did, I STILL was sure it would be a bfn. As you can see from my avatar it wasnt. Chat Icon


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Posted 4/1/11 6:05 PM
 

classc1
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Posted by AliB

But did the cramps last days and feel exactly the same as af cramps?



Yep....I started cramping the day after my 5DT and it kept up even after I got my BFP. Of course...it could go either way...but AF like cramps and no AF is a great sign. Think positive until you have a reason not to. Your little bean just might be snuggling in!!

Posted 4/1/11 6:17 PM
 

InShock
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

While I would never want to get ones hopes up falsely, cramps COULD definitely be a good sign!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/11 6:34 PM
 

MrsG72907
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

dont give up hope. i am 7 weeks preg. and I have felt like "i am getting my period" for the past 4 weeks or so. i still have light crampiness and bloat very similar to when AF is coming. Howver, after two sonos and a heartbeat im 100% sure im preg. I would have sworn AF was coming this month, but nope. Prayers for you!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/11 6:43 PM
 

kelsept
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Kelley

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

I had awful cramping and it turned out I was pregnant! I was like omg! Now have beautiful DD

Posted 4/1/11 6:50 PM
 

TripletMom
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Paula

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

I thought for sure my IVF didnt work bc I felt like AF was coming..... I was soooo wrong.....Dont give up hope.
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Posted 4/1/11 8:43 PM
 

smp123
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Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Posted by AliB

But did the cramps last days and feel exactly the same as af cramps?



i had AF cramps for the entire 2WW and after! They were EXACTLY lie AF cramps. i mean EXACTLY. and they lasted for weeks!

i was pregnant with twins! it could be a good sign!

Posted 4/1/11 9:05 PM
 

Irishgrl1017
It happened :)

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Colleen

Re: Menstrual cramps... Getting sad

Not out till she shows!!! Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/11 9:27 AM
 
 

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