How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

DH are doing Deanna's plan and today is CD10 which according to the plan we should BD. However, I am pretty tired and I know DH will also be tired once he gets home (at 10PM) how do you ladies get into the mood (or get DH in the mood) when either you or he is tired? Thanks

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

Alcohol
Candles
Lingerie
Bubble bath
Strawberries
Preseed

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

I try to look at the bigger picture..I don't want to miss an opportunity TTC

But I also agree that alcohol is a BIG help!

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

Sometimes I feel like it is just not fun and sort of mechanical when we are both tired. This sounds bad but when we don't want to, but have to we sort of treat it like a chore. Kind of like you have to clean up the kitchen after dinner even when you don't want to!

I know it sounds horrible, but that's what we would do to make sure we don't miss an entire month.

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

Posted by lilred13

I try to look at the bigger picture..I don't want to miss an opportunity TTC

But I also agree that alcohol is a BIG help!

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

Posted by Leb

Sometimes I feel like it is just not fun and sort of mechanical when we are both tired. This sounds bad but when we don't want to, but have to we sort of treat it like a chore. Kind of like you have to clean up the kitchen after dinner even when you don't want to!

I know it sounds horrible, but that's what we would do to make sure we don't miss an entire month.

Re: How do you get in the mood when you're tired?

This was our story last night... No romance involved. Unfortunately it was all about business. We just think of what the outcome will be You are not alone.