i know it shouldnt bother me but....

when i hear about couples planning when to get pregnant so that they can have a baby during a specific month and it works....that kinda bothers me...

its just sooo easy for some and harder for others...i just wanna get pregnant already

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i know...it's hard when you have a tougher time getting pregnant and it's so easy for others. But then I try to remind myself that who knows what else is going on in their lives...maybe other stuff isn't as easy as I have it. ya know?! hang in there!!!

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some people live in their own little hole and rarely every look up to see if their words or actions hurt.. my SIL had a baby in June and she was walking around telling everyone how she planned it perfectly.. and avoided the summer.. I want to beetch slap her..

a healthy baby any time for the year is fine.. heck, even feb 29th is a great day if you LO is born that day..

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Posted by letsmakeababy

i know...it's hard when you have a tougher time getting pregnant and it's so easy for others. But then I try to remind myself that who knows what else is going on in their lives...maybe other stuff isn't as easy as I have it. ya know?! hang in there!!!

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Posted by 01ellie

when i hear about couples planning when to get pregnant so that they can have a baby during a specific month and it works....that kinda bothers me...

its just sooo easy for some and harder for others...i just wanna get pregnant already

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It just feels so unfair sometimes Your time will come, hopefully very soon

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thanks

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I hear you! Everyone I know is pregnant. Even a few who weren't trying, but had trouble in the past so that makes me hopeful.

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I was hoping to be pregnant again with my twin sister and 7 months later nothing. I have acouple of other friends who are pregnant again as well and all due two months apart. I wish my little ones would be the same age but it wasn't meant to be for me.

Keep your chin up and it will happen for you.

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Posted by letsmakeababy

i know...it's hard when you have a tougher time getting pregnant and it's so easy for others. But then I try to remind myself that who knows what else is going on in their lives...maybe other stuff isn't as easy as I have it. ya know?! hang in there!!!

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Well i'm one of those people.

I wanted a sept baby. I have a son who was born in June. i was hoping to have a sept baby this time because my son will be in preschool and make the transition easier.

I got pregnant with my son on the 2nd month, so i was hoping that this time around would be that easy. It hasn't been.

But like a PP said, if you knew what was going on in my life otherwise.... . Sometimes i actually get mad at the person 'upstairs' because i'm not pregnant already... because of everything else i go through in my life, he should at least throw me a bone here and there.

C'est la vie.

I'm sorry that when people do that, it hurts your feelings or makes you upset. But you have to realize that it's all subjective and that sometimes people can plan things like that. They shouldn't be faulted for things like that, kwim?

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Posted by number2forus

Well i'm one of those people.

I wanted a sept baby. I have a son who was born in June. i was hoping to have a sept baby this time because my son will be in preschool and make the transition easier.

I got pregnant with my son on the 2nd month, so i was hoping that this time around would be that easy. It hasn't been.

But like a PP said, if you knew what was going on in my life otherwise.... . Sometimes i actually get mad at the person 'upstairs' because i'm not pregnant already... because of everything else i go through in my life, he should at least throw me a bone here and there.

C'est la vie.

I'm sorry that when people do that, it hurts your feelings or makes you upset. But you have to realize that it's all subjective and that sometimes people can plan things like that. They shouldn't be faulted for things like that, kwim?

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Went today to the shop to purchase my st.Gerard medal and the girl behind the counter told me it's high season for those because "as soon as the weather gets nice people just start thinking babies". I really wanted to tell her how I was thinking about it all along the not so nice weather. Can you believe that ish?

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I can completely relate. Everyone around me is pregnant and got pregnant on the first try or when just "not preventing." Your time will come though! Hang in there.