Thinking about #2...

DH and I just started talking about trying for #2 just a few weeks ago. Our DS is just over 2 years old now and we have been saying for months now "I guess if it happened now it wouldn't be that bad, right?" But it really wasn't a real thought until a few weeks ago. We actually asked the question "are we really ready?" The answer was "are you ever really READY?"

We are not any BC only the PNP method (we haven't been for at least 5 months now) Sunday night when we I told him not to "leave me" and now I am so nervous and actually not as sure I was as ready as I thought I was for this.

With my son we used he PNP method for years and the one time we didn't he arrived 9 months later

I don't really know what I am looking for here but just to talk it out and get ready if this actaully happens again after one time (I know it's not the norm and it doesn't always work that way but it was the case last time) so I guess we'll see what happens.

Re: Thinking about #2...

Its a huge step.. deciding to have a child.. especially if you already have one. So many factors at play. If it were to happen, from what you wrote, sounds like it was going to happen in the near future. And if it were to happen the first time.. great, right? If not, keep practicing

Re: Thinking about #2...

Yeah I completely agree.....The thought was just I already have one and he is into his terrible 2's right now...an I really ready for a newborn too

Thanks for talking me off the ledge....

Re: Thinking about #2...

Posted by WilliesWife

Yeah I completely agree.....The thought was just I already have one and he is into his terrible 2's right now...an I really ready for a newborn too

Thanks for talking me off the ledge....