Hello All! So maybe you read my post yesterday about feeling sad and down about not enough and I probably missed the chance and yada yada yada. Since this is my first cycle sans BCP I wasn't sure if my cycle was gonna be long, short or regular. I just went ahead assuming it would be regular until I saw otherwise. Well that would mean that I should have O'd on the 14th. Being on BCP for 8 years I never really paid attention to my cycle since the BCP usually regulated everything. But now that I am forced to pay attention, I noticed I was crampy yesterday. And then after I had a long talk with DH about everything that I was going through, I went to the bathroom and noticed EWCM...woo-hoo! So maybe I didn't miss it. I told DH and he was like "LETS DO THIS!!" So it went well last night and we will just take it slow from here and see what happens. Life aint so bad... Thanks for listening.