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JDC112010
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Member since 10/10 1419 total posts
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Jessica
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does it really bother you....
When your friends KNOW you're trying to conceive, and tell you it's ok to drink your face off every time you go out!?!? I like to drink wine, and lately, I've been watering it down with seltzer and I do not drink the whole bottle either, just a glass to take the edge off.
It was said to me last night at a party, and I brushed it off because I know it was joke, but it really hurts my feelings when someone says I act like an old married woman and I never come out anymore and party.
Um, 1.), I've been out of work because of my back, so I've been resting.
2.), yes, it's true, we're trying for kids, and drinking jello shots all the time is kinda tacky anyway. don't get me wrong, I LOVE a good jello shot, but every time we hang out we have to do shots? I'll take the glass of wine, thank you.
I hate when they say "you don't know you're pregnant yet, you'll be fine", like they're all of a sudden child birth experts. they did that to my friend at my bachlorette party months ago right after she got her BFP before she went to the doctor, she couldn't get an appointment before my party to know (i think she ended up getting one after all, but I can't remember).
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Gina
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Re: does it really bother you....
Honestly? Dont care.
Dont let them bother you. Its your body, your life!
EVEN if yo might pregs (2WW) so what? Women can drink while pregnant anyway.
But will all seriousness, stop worrying about what they think. You ARE allowed to drink, do jellow shots, not drink, and stay at home like an old married couple.
If it bothers you talk to them and TELL them it hurts your feelings.
Good luck.
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alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!
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Allison
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Re: does it really bother you....
No, I don't care. Some people believe you must cut everything "bad" out of your life while TTC and others don't change anything....
Im more of the not change anything.
To each their own!
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gina409
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Re: does it really bother you....
i dont drink at all so i herar this everytime we go ut..like oohhh come on have a druink,ur acting like a old married lady etc etc
i just smile and when they turn around flip themm the bird lol
dont let them get to you
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
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Kerri
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Re: does it really bother you....
i can see where this would be annoying.
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hopingforbaby
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Re: does it really bother you....
I agree with PPs that you should try not to let them get to you. Most of my friends are not big drinkers (nor am I) so this rarely comes up but I can see how it could be annoying.
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emilylives
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Emily
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Re: does it really bother you....
Message edited 7/4/2011 12:19:00 AM.
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