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MrsSx2
Finally a MOM!
Member since 11/10 2222 total posts
Name:
Valerie
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Have you told...
anyone at work that you're TTC?
I did...and I am starting to regret it. As the months go by and I am not pregnant yet...they always "check in" to see if I am pregnant yet. I get a lot of "hey..are you prego yet?" "Any news this month" "are you still trying". It kinda makes me feel a little sour because it feels like they're rubbing in the fact that I am not preggos yet (I'm sure they dont mean to).
This happen to any of you?
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Posted 1/18/11 12:28 PM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
Name:
Ang
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Re: Have you told...
the woman i share an office with HAS to know... too many convos taking place in my office that she overhears... i trust her so its no big deal... and my boss might know only because of what has already happened and knowing that I had to wait 3 months
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| Posted 1/18/11 12:36 PM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
Member since 6/10 5183 total posts
Name:
K
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Re: Have you told...
no, i haven't. i have one close friend that I work with that I was actualyl friends with before I started working here and she is the only person I might consider telling...but I really don't feel comfortable with anyone knowing right now.
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| Posted 1/18/11 12:41 PM |
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JDC112010
He's my hamball :)
Member since 10/10 1419 total posts
Name:
Jessica
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Re: Have you told...
I haven't told work. I keep my personal life out of the office. They'll know when the time is right.
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| Posted 1/18/11 12:54 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name:
M
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Re: Have you told...
Nope. I actually only work with one another person and I would NEVER tell her. We dont have that type of relationship.
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| Posted 1/18/11 1:02 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
Name:
Stacey
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Re: Have you told...
Nope- haven't told anyone at work yet.
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| Posted 1/18/11 1:10 PM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
Member since 7/09 18802 total posts
Name:
DiamondMama
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Re: Have you told...
No but I have told friends and family and I kind of regret it...
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| Posted 1/18/11 1:47 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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g
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Re: Have you told...
nope..i havent told many people cause i dont wanna hear every month well are u pregnant and have to keep saying no
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| Posted 1/18/11 2:17 PM |
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DPratt1030
LIF Infant
Member since 11/10 65 total posts
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Re: Have you told...
Yes and I regret it I just got back from my hm and got are you pregnant yet.
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| Posted 1/18/11 5:19 PM |
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Bearcat
Love my little girls!!! <3
Member since 6/10 10818 total posts
Name:
E
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Re: Have you told...
just one co-worker/friend who just came back from maternity leave. she is so great and knows not to ask dumb questions like "are you preggo yet" because she was just in my shoes a year ago!
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| Posted 1/18/11 5:20 PM |
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Re: Have you told...
Yes! I give you girls so much credit for doing it without telling. I told some friends and my immediate family. Mine...not Dhs.
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| Posted 1/18/11 5:28 PM |
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MrsCampos10-01-10
Jovani Edward is HERE!!!
Member since 10/10 2500 total posts
Name:
Jenna
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Re: Have you told...
Nope. And they won't know until I'm about 12wks preg.
Friends too.. if they ask, "soon" will always be my answer.
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| Posted 1/18/11 5:35 PM |
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emilylives
biking
Member since 12/09 2163 total posts
Name:
Emily
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Re: Have you told...
Message edited 7/4/2011 12:16:35 AM.
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| Posted 1/18/11 7:39 PM |
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ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls
Member since 2/09 20494 total posts
Name:
Me
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Re: Have you told...
2 of my friends at work and my office manager who I'm also close with. Mostly because I wanted to tell someone and we're definitely not telling our families.
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| Posted 1/18/11 9:32 PM |
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MCD0524
LIF Adult
Member since 4/10 1199 total posts
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Re: Have you told...
Ugh, I did, and now I am currently going threw infertility treatments. It's a nightmare. Every friend and family member I have knows because of Miscarriages in the past year and every coworker does the "hey, you preggo yet, you been eating a lot". UGH so rude lol
If I could do it over, it would be me and hubbys little secret ;)
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| Posted 1/18/11 10:41 PM |
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MrsH
LIF Adolescent
Member since 3/07 766 total posts
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Re: Have you told...
I did and I totally regret telling one person. I already have a child and I told this newly married girl that I work with that we were trying for number two. It was said in a conversation with several coworkers-all of whom i am fairly close to at work. I told them I was starting to get nervous b/c we had been trying for several months and it hasn't happened yet. She then proceeded to tell me that I need to relax, I am too stressed and to not think about it. She then started to ask me on a DAILY basis if I was pregnant yet! How is a person supposed to relax when you ask every day???
I tried to be rude about it and I actually said, come back to me when you and your husband are actually trying to get pregnant yourselves and then we can talk (totally out of character comment for me!) and she still didn't take the hint! Well, I am now on month 7 of trying and i am 36 yrs. old. My doctor said at my age we should start doing a work up to see if anything is going on. Hopefully I will have some answers soon.
Good luck to you. The only thing I can tell you is I try to avoid this person as much as I can. She works right across the hall from me so it is hard but I try. People are so rude sometimes!
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| Posted 1/19/11 7:53 AM |
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Nicoley89
LIF Adolescent
Member since 9/10 623 total posts
Name:
Nicole
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Re: Have you told...
Nope... no one at work.
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| Posted 1/19/11 11:59 AM |
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