Question... Poss TMI

Just out of curiosity... Do any of your SO's, ahem, take care of themselves now that you are TTC?

DH is very shy about this topic so he would never open up to me about it but now that we are TTC I'm sort of nervous that he'll waste precious "baby juice" on himself. Am I crazy or does anyone else think the same thing?

I didn't think about this until I came home from work and his computer was on and I looked up and saw some "interesting" site pulled up. (I swear I wasn't snooping! All I did was walk by and it was there!).

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i told dh when we first started no more..if he needs a release that bad let me know but we r on a schedule of every other day anyway so i think he is good

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When I was Oing last cycle I would make sure to tell DH before I left for work, "don't touch yourself today!"

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he definitely takes care of business, but not on days that we're supposed to BD. he gets a reminder
he's off some days that i'm working so it's always something that needs to be mentioned (because he has the memory of a flea) if it's O time.

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Im almost positive that he does though Im sure if I asked he would deny it. I just hope he doesnt do it when Im Oing...

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lol, my DH is totally open about that with me. and yes he took care of himself as often as ever. unless your DH has a sperm count issue or does that "excessively" (ie more than once a day or at all on days that you need to BD) its really not something you have to concern yourself with.
if i were you i would just flat out ask him not to do that on days that you need to .

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Thanks for your thoughts ladies! I feel a bit better!