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Charly
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Anyone else "afraid" to
BD while pregnant? Besides having very little desire, I just have a fear that it will cause bleeding or something (I'm not afraid of literally hurting the baby.)
TMI --- I felt bad for my DH since it's been 18 weeks since we last BD'd, so I finally gave in last night. It was fine, I just didn't enjoy it as much b/c I have this fear.
Am I being silly?
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PrincessP
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
I am with you! I keep telling my dh the baby cant breathe  Makes him feel guilty and hes more careful!
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:05 AM |
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luvsun27
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
I'm not afraid...but I have told DH it was uncomfortable...just to get out of it  
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:05 AM |
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Charly
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by luvsun27
I'm not afraid...but I have told DH it was uncomfortable...just to get out of it
Kim
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:10 AM |
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Diane
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
DH is more afraid than I am
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:11 AM |
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CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(
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Christine
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
My DH is the one who is afraid. I wish I would lose my desire so I would stop bugging him to give in
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:12 AM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Nicole
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Nope. But DH kind of is. I have however noticed that I don't get as wet down there as I used to. And it tends to take a little longer for the big O.
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:12 AM |
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RobeyMuse
my little man
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Jenn
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
no, and I was surprised that DH wasn't either.
We are just being more creative but that part of our life hasn't changed so far.
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:14 AM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Yes- I want us to do "other" stuff but I am afraid of BDing...I know its irrational but I am still uncomfortable with it.
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:16 AM |
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missrock
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Im totally afraid, plus i havent had any desire to do it either. I feel like i want to wait until after my 12 week appointment and it is killing him. I havent done it either in a while.
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by Diane
DH is more afraid than I am
same with us -
But I am the first to admit that my desire (esp lately) has gone downhill ... and I do feel bad for him, because we've had big dry spells
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:23 AM |
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Charly
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by missrock
Im totally afraid, plus i havent had any desire to do it either. I feel like i want to wait until after my 12 week appointment and it is killing him. I havent done it either in a while.
I said the same thing...then it turned into let's wait until the 20 week
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| Posted 6/29/06 11:39 AM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Not afraid at all.
Wait till the end when you are dying for the baby to come out and people will tell you sex is the way. I was begging my DH at the end every chance I got
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Daveswife
I'm all grown up now
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
DH was afraid in the begining, but now he's over it, and won't leave me alone
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CookiePuss
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by CkGm
My DH is the one who is afraid. I wish I would lose my desire so I would stop bugging him to give in
Just wait till your 3rd trimester
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| Posted 6/29/06 1:18 PM |
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Only until we had the first sono was I nervous.
ETA: Actually this just made me remember, at 6 wks when we found out it was twins I kept thinking what if I was ovulating again and again and I got PG again (with a triplet)!
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MommyofG
just the girls
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
DH is afraid, I keep telling him its ok! I read the rocking will either put the baby to sleep or make them do kung fu in your belly, LOL.
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| Posted 6/29/06 2:21 PM |
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waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by Diane
DH is more afraid than I am
Ditto - it makes me paranoid
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| Posted 6/29/06 4:31 PM |
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nancygrace
I'm 2!
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
to tell u the truth im trying to do as much as possible bc i know whta will happen after hte baby.......
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| Posted 6/29/06 4:37 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Anyone else "afraid" to
Posted by nancygrace
to tell u the truth im trying to do as much as possible bc i know whta will happen after hte baby.......
that is our thing as well.
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