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Meggo613
im a big girl!
Member since 2/07 4536 total posts
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Megan
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is there ever a time
where you just wanna throw the towel in?.. granted i know i havent been in the game as long as some... but i still think it hurts the same when the BFN comes up on the test...
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Posted 11/26/10 9:19 PM  |
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monkeybride
My Everything
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Re: is there ever a time
Yes, especially b/c we're trying for #3 I often feel like I don't have it in me emotionally to go through it again. It took 8-9 months with DS (I can't remember exactly) and if was very draining.
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:25 PM |
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kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!
Member since 6/08 15158 total posts
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Kim
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Re: is there ever a time
Just wanted to give you some hugs! 
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:26 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: is there ever a time
We started trying a year ago. In that time, I started fertility treatments, got pregnant on the 3rd IUI cycle, stayed pregnant for 4 1/2 months, and now I'm in my 2nd IUI cycle back in the game. I'm determined and in it to win it.. there's no way I will stop short of meeting my goal.
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:29 PM |
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RocPin
Life's Beachy <3
Member since 2/08 6765 total posts
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Heather
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Re: is there ever a time
Yep. Im thinking about taking a break from trying and just not prevent. I cant take it. Im becoming a mad woman in emotional crisis all the time. It doesnt help when Im surrounded by preggos.
Good luck to you!
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:33 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
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M
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Re: is there ever a time
Im only on my 2nd month of TTC and already feel like giving up. Its just so frustrating and time consuming!
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:47 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: is there ever a time
YES!! We have been trying since May (seriously TTC since June) so 6 or 7 months  It is definitely taking a toll. Last month I thought I was done and needed a break, but here I am again. Somehow we find it in ourselves to keep trying, probably because we want it SO badly. It is so emotionally draining. It will happen, just not as quickly as we would like sometimes.
Good luck Meg, I'm sure you will get your BFP very soon
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| Posted 11/26/10 9:55 PM |
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hopingforbaby
We made a wish & you came true
Member since 2/10 2695 total posts
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Me
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Re: is there ever a time
Yes I am only on month four but it is definitely taking a toll on my stress level! Last week when I got AF I told DH that I didn't want to do it anymore but after a few days went by I got back into the swing of things. I sure do hope it happens soon though!
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| Posted 11/26/10 10:03 PM |
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marriedandttc
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/08 873 total posts
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lauren
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Re: is there ever a time
Something I feel like maybe we weren't meant to have children. We have been trying for over 2 years and have had 2 miscarriages. 1 at 14 weeks and 2 unsucessful IUIs. I am not ready to throw in the towel just yet but I think I am almost there. DH is not though and doesn't understand how I feel.
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| Posted 11/26/10 10:34 PM |
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gabbie83
2 girls <3
Member since 6/08 3037 total posts
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gabbie
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Re: is there ever a time
Posted by RocPin
Yep. Im thinking about taking a break from trying and just not prevent. I cant take it. Im becoming a mad woman in emotional crisis all the time. It doesnt help when Im surrounded by preggos.
Good luck to you!
this is us exactly.
im not going to lie, i would love a BFP.
but i dont want to go crazy. so we are just not doing anything to prevent it from happening..
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| Posted 11/26/10 10:50 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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g
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Re: is there ever a time
Yes..I'm starting to feel it now...7 months 1 mc and now on clomid which I was excited to use but even that seems pointless. Hopefully christmas will cheer me up
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| Posted 11/26/10 11:23 PM |
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Re: is there ever a time
Yes, I felt this way this past month. AF showed Wed, and I won't be ovulating again for about 4 weeks. I was SO low. But inevitably, a few days after AF shows, I begin looking toward the next cycle. But those first few days....ouch.
I'm sorry for you, and know the disappointment you're feeling. Pamper yourself for now, and hopefully you'll be feelng a bit better soon : )
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| Posted 11/26/10 11:26 PM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
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Re: is there ever a time
Yes. Every single cycle this year. 2010 has completely sucked for us when it comes to TTC. Between failed IUI's, 3 miscarriages, and running out of insurance coverage for IF treatments I pretty much feel like throwing in the towel all the time. I try to keep going but some days are hard, I don't want my DD to be an only child. I love being a mom and I want more children so badly so I know how you feel. It's not always an easy journey when TTC. 
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| Posted 11/26/10 11:56 PM |
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Meggo613
im a big girl!
Member since 2/07 4536 total posts
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Megan
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Re: is there ever a time
I want to thank each and every one of you for sharing your stories and for offering support! The strength that you all have I applaud you this indeed is a stressful process but we all keep our eye on the prize! I hope the holidays really lift everyones spirits and they holidays bring a ton of happy bfp's!!!!!
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| Posted 11/27/10 12:17 AM |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
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Aim
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