We did everything right this month, preseed, temping, OPK, legs up afterwards, you name it and yet I think AF is on her way. I'm not expecting her until sunday or Monday and I'm having some cramps already. I know I'm not out yet but I'm already feeling so depressed about it. We're on month 5 and it just gets harder and harder each month. It doesn't help that DH gets really down about it too. He's been talking so much about baby stuff it just makes me feel so bad.
This is the same exact post that I wrote minutes ago. Af is due Monday and I have been getting BFNs on tests. DH is also upset, but keeps saying that we can just keep trying. Today he actually asked me if I was peeing on the stick right. hahah
TTC is a messed up process. Sometimes you can do EVERYTHING right and come up with NOTHING. Then other times you can do NOTHING at all, just ONCE that cycle and come up with a BFP. It's like a total crap shoot.
Granted though, the more trying the more likely you will eventually get that BFP.
There were many cycles where we physically could not have more and came up empty handed. I also used preseed and the CBEFM and OPK's and Deanna's Plan... so I really did a lot... and it still took about 10 months!!!!
AWw hang in there and just know it WILL HAPPEN! I truly believe all of us on here will be blessed with a baby at some point. Now we just need to learn how to have patience...which I dont have any of, haha!