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limommer
LIF Adult
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Meredith
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The jealousy is killing me!
If I hear about one more pregnancy IRL I'm gonna lose my sh!t  . Ok vent over sorry to do this so early in the a.m.....Carry on
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
I am with you..I hate being jealous of pregos but I feel like everywhere I turn theres a preg woman! 
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| Posted 11/8/10 8:15 AM |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
Sometimes you just need to get it off your chest! I hate when I get that twinge of jealousy, but I feel better that I recognize it, acknowledge it and move on! 
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| Posted 11/8/10 8:34 AM |
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babywish10
LIF Toddler
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
You are not alone, I feel the same way a lot lately.
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| Posted 11/8/10 8:51 AM |
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Stiletto19
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/08 569 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
I hear you!!!! I know my time will come, but its still frustrating. Plus I work at a clinic that provides OBGYN care and I'm surrounded by preggos and beautiful babies ALL DAY
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| Posted 11/8/10 9:02 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Jib
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
I feel that way when I see women who are pregnant... but then I remind myself that I have no idea what their journey was like. Personally, I have been trying for a year. In that time, I went to an RE, had 3 medicated IUI cycles, got pregnant for 4 1/2 months, lost the baby due to horrible complications, and now just had my first IUI cycle back at the RE and it failed.
For all you know, those women had a tough road. 
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| Posted 11/8/10 10:29 AM |
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limommer
LIF Adult
Member since 2/10 1073 total posts
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Meredith
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
Posted by PennyCat
I feel that way when I see women who are pregnant... but then I remind myself that I have no idea what their journey was like. Personally, I have been trying for a year. In that time, I went to an RE, had 3 medicated IUI cycles, got pregnant for 4 1/2 months, lost the baby due to horrible complications, and now just had my first IUI cycle back at the RE and it failed.
For all you know, those women had a tough road.
You are right I am being selfish I just have this feeling that it's not my month and I am very bitter this am. I'm so sorry that you are going through this
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| Posted 11/8/10 10:36 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
Posted by limommer
Posted by PennyCat
I feel that way when I see women who are pregnant... but then I remind myself that I have no idea what their journey was like. Personally, I have been trying for a year. In that time, I went to an RE, had 3 medicated IUI cycles, got pregnant for 4 1/2 months, lost the baby due to horrible complications, and now just had my first IUI cycle back at the RE and it failed.
For all you know, those women had a tough road.
You are right I am being selfish I just have this feeling that it's not my month and I am very bitter this am. I'm so sorry that you are going through this
I didn't say you are being selfish  What I meant was, take into account that just because they are pregnant, doesn't mean that it happened right away or without a similar struggle to you or me.
I guess I just automatically think that way because I feel like so many people have trouble conceiving these days. I just like to assume few people have it THAT easy- maybe assuming that makes me feel better since I certainly had my struggles!
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| Posted 11/8/10 10:40 AM |
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ttc2011
LIF Toddler
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
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| Posted 11/8/10 10:55 AM |
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cateyemm
Twins!
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
Posted by PennyCat
Posted by limommer
Posted by PennyCat
I feel that way when I see women who are pregnant... but then I remind myself that I have no idea what their journey was like. Personally, I have been trying for a year. In that time, I went to an RE, had 3 medicated IUI cycles, got pregnant for 4 1/2 months, lost the baby due to horrible complications, and now just had my first IUI cycle back at the RE and it failed.
For all you know, those women had a tough road.
You are right I am being selfish I just have this feeling that it's not my month and I am very bitter this am. I'm so sorry that you are going through this
I didn't say you are being selfish What I meant was, take into account that just because they are pregnant, doesn't mean that it happened right away or without a similar struggle to you or me.
I guess I just automatically think that way because I feel like so many people have trouble conceiving these days. I just like to assume few people have it THAT easy- maybe assuming that makes me feel better since I certainly had my struggles!
You're so right, I am having the same problem as the OP and that definitely is a good way to frame it. My coworker who I share an office with is 2 months pg and its so weird. I am so happy for her and want to help her cuz she's got mornin sickness but when she leaves i cry. Everyday. Its ridiculous.
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| Posted 11/8/10 11:57 AM |
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HeatherRose
Life is Good :)
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
It will happen for you too
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| Posted 11/8/10 2:27 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
I know the feeling. Hang in there. Our time is going to come.
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| Posted 11/8/10 3:27 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
i am with you!!!!!!!!!! everyone around me is preggo
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| Posted 11/8/10 4:59 PM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
Member since 6/10 5183 total posts
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K
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
i know the feeling, but just try to stay positive. it will happen for you!
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| Posted 11/8/10 5:25 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
I hear you. It is very hard when everyone around you seems to be pg and you aren't  Hopefully you won't have to wait much longer!
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| Posted 11/8/10 7:48 PM |
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an9elic
♥ HJ ♥
Member since 6/07 3331 total posts
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kristen
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Re: The jealousy is killing me!
i am soooo with you....
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| Posted 11/9/10 7:58 PM |
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