i had a friend who went through surgery, fertility treatments, back and forth to the doctor for 2 years and all she wanted was to get pregnant and have a baby but nothing.
when she lost all hope and decided to give up she instantly got pregnant on her own and now she has a son (i remember her telling me that month she was giving up and focusing on herself, she started the month off with drinking a bottle of wine and smoking a pack of cigarettes and she started going back to the gym hardcore and going to the tanning salon - all things that she felt were reckless and avoided while trying)
i always told her that it would happen and it did. you hear so many stories like that.
And still no BFP
and she started going back to the gym hardcore and going to the tanning salon - all things that she felt were reckless and avoided while trying) 
