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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
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Aim
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****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
How did you and your DH have the talk about starting a family?
We were at Pre-Cana in December and we decided that after we got married we would stop "preventing" and "see what happens." So here we are...seeing what's happening and it is driving me nuts! 
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Posted 10/25/10 8:49 AM  |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
Member since 6/10 5183 total posts
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K
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
i don't know exactly how we started talking about it. I think the topic would just come up little by little and we would just start talking more in depth about it. We just ended up decided to stop preventing and see what happens.
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| Posted 10/25/10 9:01 AM |
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ttcsecret
LIF Adult
Member since 9/10 1016 total posts
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
We talked about it before we got married. DH wanted to started almost right after we got married but I told him I wanted time for ourselves being married and he agreed. This past year we did what we like to do one more time knowing we were going to start trying.
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| Posted 10/25/10 9:10 AM |
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HollaDay
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/08 620 total posts
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Holla!
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
we talked about it casually before we were married and for our 1st year of marriage. We had the year we wanted to start trying and once that year came it was like WHOA and obviously became much more serious talk about exactly when to go off BC
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| Posted 10/25/10 12:40 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
We've always talked about having kids. We were just waiting to get married. Once we were we just started ttc, there wasn't really a specific talk about it.
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| Posted 10/25/10 3:44 PM |
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CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts
Member since 9/10 1531 total posts
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Cathy
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
We started talking about it right away because we're both compulsive planners. But it was always "next year". We did that for 3 and a half years and then finally we stopped preventing it.
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| Posted 10/25/10 7:42 PM |
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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!
Member since 6/10 1441 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
we knew we wanted kids early on in our marriage (we have been married for a little over a year) so we just knew. we have been together for so long, we never had one "talk" we've always just talked about it
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| Posted 10/25/10 9:08 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
Member since 5/08 3303 total posts
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Nik
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
we always talked about it. omg i remember before our wedding almost 2 years ago i was telling him i wanted to have a baby i used to dream that i had a baby bump in my wedding dress! LMAO!! back then i had baby fever but knew there was no way i was seriously ready for one.
after we bought our house last year and we moved we really started talking about it more seriously.
by the summer it was all we talked about and a month ago we decided we were ready for it...
Message edited 10/25/2010 9:09:18 PM.
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| Posted 10/25/10 9:08 PM |
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RocPin
Life's Beachy <3
Member since 2/08 6765 total posts
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Heather
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
Ugh...it was such an upsetting sad conversation for me.
We were married about 6 months when I brought up children again...
He all of the sudden didnt want what I had wanted all along and that was a family. That was the first I had ever heard that from him. 
We talked long and hard about it. He realized he was more terrified than opposed to it. We decided to wait until our 2nd year anniversary to give him more time and here we are... 1.5 years later. I wish I could say he is THRILLED about it now but I cant. I CAN honestly say he has accepted it and is fully "coorprative".
Not quite the way I had always dreamed of this exciting time but I am happy and I know he will be too once he sets eyes on his future adorable offsprig 
Message edited 10/25/2010 9:59:54 PM.
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| Posted 10/25/10 9:57 PM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/10 593 total posts
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cant tell ya yet!
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Re: ****Monday 10.25 QOTD****
i dont really remember...probally started off with what names we liked for a boy or girl
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| Posted 10/26/10 1:07 PM |
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