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hazel
LIF Zygote
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Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
Dh and I are married for 6 years. We have been questioned about when are we going to TTC, and frankly it is no ones business. It is a personal decision, and while we are TTC, but not really timing anything- I am a bit annoyed. No one knows our financial status- we are doing well, have jobs etc. No one knows what I went thru leading up to getting married a little bit later in life and why I did that. No one fully understands until they lived my life. I am happy and content. I do not judge anyone. I do want a baby. Fast forward to 2 people this week. One person says to me- why are you waiting so long? I am married for 3 years and have twins already- I do not understand why??? then procedes to try to question me, I was very uncomfortable and go off the phone fast. Then DH goes to work and a assistant says to him- let me ask you, what age are you? don't you want a baby? Did you go to a doctor yet? wait- I know you did not- this is what you need to do- Hold hands and pray for 7 days and you will get a baby !! Can you freaking believe the nerve of these people? So I said to DH I would have walked away from her and tell her to mind her own beeswax- or better yet go into work tomorrow and tell them you #$%^&* the you know what out of your wife and prayed- just to see what a fool she is- can u imagine the nerve of these people- I think I am going to start asking people about there sex lives and see how they like it? I just need to vent- I cannot believe how stupid people are. You can bet when I am pregnant these people who have annoyed me to no end will be the last to know! Some things you just do not forget- it is no ones business- and it is really starting to annoy me. Okay vent over!
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Posted 10/7/10 9:57 AM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
wow that is so obnoxious... you should definitely say something the next time they do...
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| Posted 10/7/10 10:18 AM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
people are ridiculous
it's either "you are so young" or "you're so old", or "you should have waited" or "you're waiting so long"
don't let people like this get to you - you do what is right for you....
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| Posted 10/7/10 10:52 AM |
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01ellie
LIF Adult
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
OMG that is very rude of both of them! you would think people would think before speaking...especially about a topic so personal...
there are so many other ways to ask someone about having kids...
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| Posted 10/7/10 2:27 PM |
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dkny
LIF Infant
Member since 5/10 345 total posts
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
people are the worst  just try to ignore them...you do what is best for you 
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| Posted 10/7/10 2:55 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
Posted by dkny
people are the worst just try to ignore them...you do what is best for you
ita..we r all doing whats best for us whether ttc or not
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| Posted 10/7/10 2:57 PM |
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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
wackos...
ppl are clueless. they think they're being helpful, but no one should be asking that question of anyone. like, i know curiosity is natural, but let's show a little impulse control.
let it roll
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:43 PM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
Member since 6/10 5183 total posts
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Re: Cannot believe the nerve of some people! TTC related
wow thats so obnoxious!
btw...if praying for 7 days was all it took to make a baby, none of us would be on this board!
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| Posted 10/7/10 5:43 PM |
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