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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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not sure how to feel...
i know some of you have really been through hell with this TTC process, so at the risk of sounding like a crybaby:
after 2 early m/c i went through the whole cycle monitoring process @ rsofny. every single test came back normal, so that's good...right?
is it weird to wish that there was at least an explanation? now i just feel like we're trying and trying with no baby and no reason for it.
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Posted 9/21/10 5:10 PM  |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Re: not sure how to feel...
I think you need some immune testing.
That's my first thought.
So sorry about the miscarriages.
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| Posted 9/21/10 6:05 PM |
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maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !
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Re: not sure how to feel...
So sorry for your loss. I have also had had an early loss, and have been dx with Unexplained Infertility for the past 2 years, it is incredibly frustrating for me, dh andddd my doctor. Again, I am so sorry. 
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| Posted 9/21/10 6:07 PM |
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Otherme
Square head cutie pants
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Re: not sure how to feel...
What you are feeling is perfectly normal, and what DH and I are going through at the moment as well - except i haven't had any miscarriages. I can't get pregnant at all.
the term 'unexplained infertility' has to be the most frustrating thing i've ever heard! 
don't ever minimize what you're feeling about this process - it takes its toll on us all and sometimes you just can't help what you're feeling!
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| Posted 9/21/10 6:27 PM |
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FergieK
Loving my girls
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Re: not sure how to feel...
Sorry for your frustration. After almost a year all my tests come back normal too, I do almost hoped that they find something treatable. IDK. Stay postive and ask alot of questions. Maybe getting a second opinion is worth a second pair of eyes looking at your situation. In any case we are here for you if you need.
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| Posted 9/21/10 6:27 PM |
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littlebeanz
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Re: not sure how to feel...
Posted by Blu-ize
I think you need some immune testing.
That's my first thought.
So sorry about the miscarriages.
I agree, I went to RSNY and they ddint suggest immune testing at all, just clomid...dr b tested me and it came back with immune issues...
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| Posted 9/21/10 7:34 PM |
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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Re: not sure how to feel...
thanks for the moral support
another girl on here had mentioned about the immune testing, i asked at my last consult if he tested for "immune issues" and he said they did. i didn't really know enough about think link between m/c & immune testing to ask more specific questions.
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| Posted 9/23/10 3:58 PM |
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